@stepmommytoanna, I don't know what you mean

See I do the same thing...making breakfast, packing lunch. But I do feel as if he isn't afraid of me leaving and because he's the bread winner he gets to treat me how ever he wants. But I seriously can't talk to him he has the mentality of a 10 year old

sounds like* not dibs 😛

men are very prideful. he probably feels entitled to have sex with you whenever he wants or be waited on hand and foot because he is the bread winner. I feel like most men aren't emotional like us women therefore don't understand why we feel certain ways on a lot of things. I'm recently a stay at home mom, 29 weeks prego. At times I was feeling like the help around the house. but my husband works his butt off. I changed my perspective on things. I keep the house clean, take care of our dogs, pack his breakfast & lunch everyday. We ended up fighting because it's getting hard for me to bend down & my back hurts. I always remind him to treat me the way he would want a man to treat his sister or mom. It seems to help. Men tend to be logic based so understand things better from a logical point of view. Plus your husband dibs, like he isn't afraid for you to leave him if he mistreats you because your "stuck". if things continue I would look into a women's shelter...not for a long time but long enough so your husband realizes how, much you do for him and the family. just my opinion hope your okay.

@aaliyahmichelle, find momma son here near you I'm sure they wouldn't mind

will do @mrssabby hopefully it goes well

@aaliyahmichelle, alright boo try not to stress let me know how it goes 😉

@mrssabby, im in my twentys and nothing has really got me wanting it like a maniac. He quit school when he was in 6 grade but never even paid attention so he's not a great reader. But yes will definitely try thank you so much I'll keep that in mind.

@stepmommytoanna, I just moved to this area 3 years ago and I don't really go anywhere to meet people. I'm very social though. Its's just been hard.

@aaliyahmichelle, is there any other time you can have sex, me personally I'm not an all the time sex girl I used to be in my twentys but now I fall asleep by 9pm so we do it at 5am before he works or at 5pm when he gets home, I think he should compromise especially if you are doing everything, me are usually won over without words, he may love you, but sometimes when they are thinking with the wrong head it seems as if they don't, and if talking don't work, write a letter and leave it somewhere where he can get it, trust me he will read it, or just seduce him at 6am, wAke him up from a deep sleep giving him some good loving, and see what happens, I hope things work out for ya luv

You sure can boo, it's your world squirrel

Have any good friends you can stay with that won't drive you crazy ?

Ok im 22, my husband is 42 I met my husband when i was 19 years old I lost my virginity at 18. I have never been a sexually active person. My husband right this moment is not speaking to me, it's been going on for about 4 or 5 days. I am a mommy of 1 and I'm expecting (22 weeks). I'm a stepmother of 2. Neither of them appreciate what I do me being so young. I literally do everything which is expected of a mother and a wife but because I get very tired from doing all of these things I don't want to have sex at the end of the day, I just want to relax. YES I have tried to talk to him but he literally acts like a 10 year old whenever I want to talk about anything involving our marriage or relationship. I don't think he loves me anymore and I feel like more of a slave thank anything else. I don't have family anywhere because i was in fostercare but i do have sisters in Miami and their all unstable. So if I were to "want a break" there wouldn't be anywhere to go. Any advice....please anything would help

absolutely

Yes ma'am.

No judgment here!

of course

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