All the mommys out there is this huge expectation that as soon as your baby comes out your going to feel this intense love feeling for your baby... And some people do get that! And when I didn't... I thought something was wrong with me... I started getting really depressed.. I couldn't call myself his mom... I felt like a baby sitter. It took almost 4 months to get that feeling of love. It's not that I didn't love him I did. But it wasn't like people told me it was going to be. So just try to not have those kinds of expectations and know that if it doesn't happen that doesn't make you a bad mom... It's normal... Just talk to someone.
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Soo true! I expected to feel "love @ first sight" but when they put him on my chest I was like who ft is this? Lol I love him more and more everyday tho now !
So true cause they grow on you, cause, especially breastfeeding I wasn't the happiest camper, I loved her but I wasn't in love, she grew on me and I grew on her
It's ok to say that pregnancy sucks. Because for some, it does. Not everyone has a pregnancy with no symptoms or complications to complain about. If you admit it sucks, it doesn't mean you're not greatful or don't love your baby. It just means you're being honest. The same with motherhood. That sucks sometimes too. That doesn't mean you don't love your kids and don't do your best to give them the world. I know it's old but it popped up in a snapchat story about how people (Especially other moms)...
What’s your take on vaccinations? Some people think they do more harm to the baby than good .. personally I don’t know , but I would love some insight.
My friend got a small tattoo last week. It probably took less then 20 mins at the most!! And she’s 26weeks pregnant. She posted her new tattoo on fb and keep getting hate comments on being a horrible mom that doesn’t care if she’s pregnant. This is ridiculous!!! She deleted the post and people still are talking about it on Facebook. PEOPLE GETTING A TATTOO DOESNT AFFECT YOUR BABY AT ALL!! Especially when it’s below the knee and not anywhere near or around the belly... get this through your heads...
Is It Weird That I Don't Want Other Expecting Moms To Know My Baby's Name??
I Would Be Furious!!!
Just Find Your Own Name For Your Baby, Don't Be A Name Stealer Lmaoooo
I'm Deadass Tho...
I don't have a baby boy. I would like to know personally how do you moms feel about people treating there sons like girls as in taking them to nail salons and getting pampered ect.... I think it's important for ladies to remember your not raising a little boy. At the end of the day your raising a man. If I have a son I just want to raise him to be the best man he can be. I won't treat him to the same things I would my daughter and vice versa.😕
Yeah and I was super depressed and hating myself cause I thought I had failed as a mother! @regelbaby