All the mommys out there is this huge expectation that as soon as your baby comes out your going to feel this intense love feeling for your baby... And some people do get that! And when I didn't... I thought something was wrong with me... I started getting really depressed.. I couldn't call myself his mom... I felt like a baby sitter. It took almost 4 months to get that feeling of love. It's not that I didn't love him I did. But it wasn't like people told me it was going to be. So just try to not have those kinds of expectations and know that if it doesn't happen that doesn't make you a bad mom... It's normal... Just talk to someone.