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anisesoline
anisesoline
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (33 нед.)

RANT.!!

My baby's dad is getting on my last nerve. he acting like he's the one who's pregnant. he has a dam attitude ever day a few times a day.. but when I get an attitude I'm annoying.!!! for the last few weeks ive had to seriously kiss his ass. trying to not fighting. . trying to actually enjoy the end of my pregnancy. but he just keeps picking at me and picking at me.. you can only fake a smile for so long. I want to punch him right in his throat.! he never apologizes for anything he said or dose during our arguments. he just expect me to kiss his ass and act like nothing happened. for the past 3 years with him we have always been rocky. and after every break up my feelings have always dimed just a little more because of his actions .. I'm just start to realize our problems will never go way.. and no matter how much i want to try for our family... my children deserve a happy mom. he only thinks of him self and has no sense of compassion or understand... and this baby hasn't changed our relationship one bit. I just don't know anymore honestly. I feel like I just need to let it go... cause I honestly can't see myself being happy with someone who's so self centered and inconsiderate.

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lunas.mommy

Isabel Marzella 🌺В ожидании первенца

@anisesoline, he is still a boy. My fiancé is 28 a vet as well and he acts like a boy sometimes. Some guys never really grow. Best just to think of you and the baby. Your the boss not him. If he wants to be part of it he can if not then oh well. Can't keep them forever but you'll have a little one loving you which is way more important the a boy.

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chelsea0820

chelseaВ ожидании первенца

I'm about at my breaking point. I do everything for him, even though I'm, 9 months pregnant and he doesn't do shot for me. but it's okay, I'm only nice bc I'm pregnant, once I give birth to my son I'm sure I'll go back to being Bitchy ole me. and I won't do crap for him

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anisesoline

anisesolineМама сына (4 года), беременна (33 нед.)

@chelsea0820,

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anisesoline

anisesolineМама сына (4 года), беременна (33 нед.)

I completely understand. it's sad. as a man t he y should be supporting us mentally... I tell my boyfriend all the time he should be making my life easier... I'm the one who's 8 months pregnant!!! so why do I always have to make him feel better when he makes me feel like crap. smh. I'm debating on a lot right now. I'm not sure how to handle it anymore. but I know I can't keep living like this.

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chelsea0820

chelseaВ ожидании первенца

absolutely. right now I'm battling with him to wake his ass up and take a shower so I don't have to battle him in the morning before work. I'm seriously contemplating punching him in the face

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anisesoline

anisesolineМама сына (4 года), беременна (33 нед.)

Isn't it sad. Smh @chelsea0820

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chelsea0820

chelseaВ ожидании первенца

that sounds like my babys father. on point

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