Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Creeped out! A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped out and grossed out. Ugh. What would you do in this situation? I've reported this to my manager.
Okay so idk if it's the same for every state or whatever ( I live in West Virginia ) but I need some advice :/... So my son is due in about a month, and the father is between two different guys ( I didn't cheat long story :/ ) One of the possible fathers lives in North Carolina two states away from me, and the other possible father lives like 20 minutes away from me, but I told him and he said he doesn't want to talk about it, then blocked me. Once I have the baby, and they ask me who the father is, how am I supposed to get ahold of the possible father that blocked me and even have him sign his rights up or even let him know? And what do I tell the hospital when they ask?... Do I just tell them a name and they will find him? Or what... Cause if I don't tell them who the father is then I will loose all medical coverage. Also if the other possible father wants rights, does that mean he can take me son out of state away from me?... I'm so scared either way that something bad is going to happen... I don't want my son taken two states away with out me... And I don't want the other possible father around cause he use to abuse me and he smokes weed and I don't want that around my son. 😢😢😢
It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Estefania Salinas Garcia·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
No he blocked you out of his life already
deleted-user·
@niagracia, that's the wrong way of thinking and you will never prosper that way that is still her father
deleted-user·
@mommathesing, it's hurtful that he has unfriend you and blocked your number but as you said yourself that is still your father . Reach out to him if you can because he does have a grandchild on the way . Whether he wants to do for his grandchild or not that is up to him but let him make that decision . Be the bigger person in this situation and when you talk to him don't be mad, just be cordial like I just called to tell you that I am pregnant and you have a grandchild on the way. Love you and I hope you will be able to be apart of his/her life. That's it and see what he says.
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
I tried to reconnect with my dad with my baby, he litarlly used her to have pictures taken with her to show off to his church buddies then never had anything to do with either of us again.. so it's really just how you feel on the matter
Estefania Salinas Garcia·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
@phasion, if he fail to be in her life why would she allow him to hurt her son? The pain she felt not having him around is the pain her son will feel asking where grandpa, why can't I go see grandpa?? Excuse me but that is my opinion. Why is she going to chase someone who doesn't reach out to her either. If he doesn't make an effort after she tried why should she bother wasting time?
deleted-user·
@niagracia, but that's it he may change because he has a grandchild on the way don't write him off because of what he has done also by doing so you're making a decision for the child the child has the right to know his grandfather . But I'm a firm believer of honor thy mother and thy father and your days will remain longer . But that advice like you said is your opinion and isn't family oriented at all but out of hate because of what he have done .
deleted-user·
@sking092192, exactly at that's what I'm saying at least you reached out to your dad because he's your father but what he does after you said look dad this is you grandchild that's in his hands . You've already did what you had to do your conscience is clear .
deleted-user·
@niagracia, I don't think you read what I put lol that's what I said after she has made her effort of reaching out to him there's no reason to reach out to him again .
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
I personally wish I would have never attempted, it did nothing but break my heart
Adrianna😘👑·
В ожидании первенца
I would reach out but don't expect anything. When I reached out to my birth mother I had no expectations of who she would be or how she would act that way I would not get hurt.
Trinia Sawyerr·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm 29 and never really had my biological parents in my life. My mother and I go back and forth with arguing and not getting along. My father plays no role in my life nor his grandchildrens lives. He hasn't been there and has broken many promises to me. When you have tried and gave it your all, like me, I was thinking since I had my first baby on the way he would change and be there for me and his grandchildren, that was false, a person changes only for themselves, a child will or will not solidify your relationship with your parents. You can honor your mother and your father till your death bed but you don't have to put yourself through extra stress and heartache, that shit hurts. I'm 29 and barely realizing that I don't need people who don't need me, no matter how many times I've voiced my needs and wants for a Mother and father, they still didn't change. Before your father can be the father that he needs to be, he must come to terms with what went wrong and then from there he is able to heal and so are you. Dont put on extra stress especially if you're pregnant, I had to let go of that relationship recently since it was causing me to stress and have anxiety while pregnant. He blocked you and unfriended you on Facebook instead of talking to you like a "father" should. Seems like he still isn't ready even when we are ready for that solid relationship. I have been ready since the age of 13, I'm still waiting...... only time will tell. You can still love your parents or parent with all your heart but that does not mean you need to continue being hurt by him or them. If all other outs have failed, move on and just pray that one day he will see in him what you see in him. This post hits home.
Trinia Sawyerr·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
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mommathesing·
thank you very much ladies, I don't expect him to want to be in my babies life, I guess it would just make me feel better knowing I tried I guess. I don't know.
Trinia Sawyerr·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
as long as you tried, love there is nothing else you can do... but keep trying.