I wish I was in a situation where I could take a yr off and stay with my baby. That is a blessing. Like others said, once that baby comes u def will not feel useless

@sunshinelovesu, thats good that he 's supportive...it does make situations like this easier for the prego mommies :-) it has helped keep the stress down some cause when I wad working my job (just the office) was always making me irritable when id get home....my fiance said their not paying me enough to put up with all the mess...so Im glad I made the move :-)

yea I know what you mean. at first I cringed every time he took me out to eat or just spent money. I felt like I was just a burden but now I'm grateful I have a man who doesn't need anything from me just to raise our kids.

Sounds like we have similar stories I'm a dental assistant too and was put on bed rest in January and my husband just works and I feel bad cause only one income and having our third child but he is very supportive and doesn't want me working

@ann_kzz, that makes me feel better!! :-) he is really supportive but he also likes to spend money lol...so its just hard for me not to stress cause I handle all the financial business..so I see the numbers..yikkkeess! lol but I agree with I just hard sometimes to relax...guess I better start learning to lol :-)

You are being emotional gf ;) kick back and relax. I've worked my whole life it feels like and for the first time I'm a stay at home mom as well. it's a big change but if he's able to support you don't worry about it. being able to take time to raise your children and not miss the milestones because your at work, school, or too tired is a blessing. don't feel guilty appreciate how he is supportive about it.

I'm not and feel bad... but my family is helping us out... and me out cuz they know it's hard to find a job whole pregnant. . but I'll be working with my schools football team starting in the fall

Stay home once the baby comes you won't want to miss a momment of the baby's life. My son was 2 months old when I went back to work and I missed him so much and I felt like I didn't have enough time with him. Enjoy that year with your baby. ☺😊

@kcal12, I love assisting!! I miss it and its only been 3 months lol...everybody says if i have the opportunity to stay home atleast the first yr to do so or ill regret it...I think im just being emotional and trying to fix everything now instead of trying to let time do its job :-)

thank u ladies...my fiance says the same thing..that day care would be more then me just staying home...but ian going back to school next fall for dental hygienst...maybe then we could afford daycare with my income too :-)....we shall see!!

I wish I had the choice to stay home I'm a dental assistant as well I love what I do but I wish I could stay home and raise my baby I hear staying home is like a full time job

I'm absolutely miserable, anxious want a job SO bad... but, There's no point because I don't have anybody to watch Skye... so, it'll cost us more to pay for a baby sitter then we would be making, and we won't be able to do it...

once that baby comes you're definitely Not gonna feel useless. Lol I'm not working either, I feel your pain. I haven't been able to get a jib since I'm too far along so I'm just letting it be

In all honesty, you'll be putting more into paying for a babysitter then you would be if you'd just stay home and do it yourself...