he should be responsible for the baby but if he wants nothing to do with him then I think someone else should get the chance to care for him and not just with money. I was just bringing it up as one option. I also feel (not trying to sound rude just my opinion) that if he truly wants to be responsible for this other child he should do so and not financially and be in the kids life...every child deserves a chance to know both his parents. again I went through this at 7 years old I found out my bio dad wanted nothing to do with me and signed his right away after I was trying to get to know him...I got lucky and had a step father who did want to care for me and adopted me. in the end this decision is up to your family and what's best for it.

@eskawho, no I understand where your coming from I'm not trying to be rude at all..

@eskawho, so you don't think he should be responsible for that baby.. I think he's doing the right thing by helping provide for the baby..

Ok. that is up your family...i just wanted to put 2 cents in as a kid who went through this.

@eskawho, the mother doesn't even want him to have anything to do with him she's about to have her 5th baby and none of those children have anything to do with their dad (I knew her personally)

@eskawho, we don't even live in the same state as him.. so honestly if the babies mother got with someone else and that baby wanted to claim him as dad is fine but I think he should still support the baby @eskawho

it would be different if he want to be in the baby's life

@heather_95, believe me I get that but I also know how it feels to have a father who wants nothing to do with you and that's not fair to the child.

@eskawho, he needs to realize his actions have consequences..

@eskawho, he asked me if he should I told him that is not my choice it's his he doesn't want to because he doesn't want to go through more court.. the only reason I don't think he should sign them away is because he needs to be responsible for his actions and support that baby

if he doesn't want anything to do with this other kid maybe he should sign his rights away that way he is no longer financially responsible for him. my bio dad did that when I was little and my step dad adopted me.

@edomke, yes which is why I don't mind getting a job to help support her I know as a mom its my job to make sure she has everything and I know the past can't be changed which is why he's been forgiven 😃

But you guys are also a team try to think of it that way. Help each other out. You both can't change the past 😀

I have a degree and can't find a job with it. Well, I can, but I make more waiting tables. Look into a serving shift for like two - three days a week. (:

@yesenia5, glad I don't just seem like a b for telling him that lol

yes agreed 👌

@yesenia5, I think it's like the only way to be fair to her in my opinion

@yesenia5, ya.. I was planing to do it online tho.. but if I started I wouldn't mind a part time job this only came up because I told him since he has to pay 300 a month for that kid(not trying to be mean by saying that kid but he doesn't even want anything to do with him) he needs to put away like 200 for soph a month because I don't ever want him to say sorry Sophia I can't get that for you because I'm supporting another kid..

no I'd be mad that isn't fair I think u should start school if that was your original plan and work at school I know they have alot you can do between classes or after pay is decent I wouldn't tell him but maybe u should lol so you'll know you have safe money when needed. 😊