I guess you could call this a rant -- I keep seeing girls on my Facebook post about how crappy the…
I guess you could call this a rant -- I keep seeing girls on my Facebook post about how crappy the father of their child(ren) are. It really starts to get my nerves and it's taking everything inside of me not to say something. It's like - you KNEW who this guy was before you slept with him. And especially for the girls who have multiple babies with the same dead-beat. I have no sympathy for these people and their posts. You knew what you were getting into. You knew he didn't have a job, didn't treat his family well, didn't treat you well. Why still sleep with him!? If he can't treat his mother with respect, why would you think he'd treat you any different? (This is just one picture of a post I saw tonight. Others have been even more aggravating recently.) I'm not trying to be heartless, but, maybe get to know someone before you have children with them! Ugh...
Lisa·
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Some guys change and some try to be there but you have the girls who push them away because they aren't dating anymore... But cheers to dads who still love and support there kids:)
missing118user·
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I would post posts like these :( And its true, I knew how he was. Except we all secretly wish they'd change.. I posted a rant One time and my cousin told me the same exact thing you're saying here. She told me I shouldn't be posting things like that about my babys father, it was nobodys business lol which is right! so embarrassed i took it down, little did I know my babys father actually read it, he did something that surprised me like no other, he changed :D I'm glad I posted that, it wasn't the sole reason, i also left him. he got his ish together and now Im happy lol..
jenna tess·
@mssjudyk, I'm so happy he changed for you! It's just half of these girls have been posting the same tune for years, and then have MORE children with the same man. I understand people change, and I hope these deadbeat dads do, but it's like, after years and years, it's time to find someone who treats you right! 🙈 -- I see you're from Sacramento! And due July 4th! I'm in Roseville (work in Sac.) and due July 15th!!! ☺️☺️
deleted-user·
Lol well you may want to get off this app because women post and talk about that here as well to vent so you may be just tired of seeing it all around
jenna tess·
@phasion, it's the repetitive stuff. The one status in the morning about how he's 'amazing', and then the next at night about how he's cheating and a pig. It's like, enough is enough! Haha
deleted-user·
@jennatess, ohhhhh yes so annoying I would just block them they want a pity party or something
jenna tess·
@phasion, I usually do. I see that if you even call anyone out on their crap, the admin steps in and you get in trouble. But sometimes, I think some of these girls need to hear how silly they sound.
deleted-user·
@jennatess, omg yesss some of these girls are overly sensitive and don't want to hear the truth I know !! Admin be like "Let's respect everyone" lol but it's like these women posting for everyone to see so now we can't give our opinion lol
missing118user·
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I agree! Injave a few of those friends, some women are blindly in love, not always a good thing :/ Omg Roseville isn't too far, Im in Rio Linda :D how exciting! I have yet to meet anyone I just moved here :/
jenna tess·
@mssjudyk, I just moved here from SoCal! I work, but, nobody really wants to hang out with a pregnant chick! Haha. Add me on Facebook 😊 (Jenna Tess)