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elbellxo

Okay ladies need your opinions. So my friend asked me to come in and talk to her boss and fill out an application. I…

Okay ladies need your opinions. So my friend asked me to come in and talk to her boss and fill out an application. I went in today met the owner and did my application and had an interview. Long story short I got the job and start Monday. I assumed my friend mentioned that I was pregnant but she didn't so when do you think I should tell them?

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elbellxo

elbellxo

@tracynangel, that makes me feel better that you waited that long. @queendavis thanks for the advice girl that makes me feel much better!

missing55user

missing55user

Wait as long as you want and nothing about it is dishonest or deceitful. Your pregnancy is your personal business and they have no right to know. Plus you being pregnant cannot affect if they hire you, it's against the law. I would wait until you're showing (if you aren't already), and just tell them you're expecting. Don't make it out to be a big deal when you tell them that way they don't think you were trying to hide it. Maybe even drop it casually like "Oh yeah when the baby is born...blah blah blah!" Good luck :)

tracynangel

Tracy Pimentel 💋

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

I didn't tell my boss until I was about 20 weeks! This is my first year at this job and I was so scared to tell her

elbellxo

elbellxo

@tracynangel @phasion @trezelle thanks for the advice ladies. I'm just concerned about it because I start Monday and Sunday I'll be 17 weeks along. I'm not very big yet but with my work uniform I'm afraid the will be able to tell. I just didn't know if not saying anything today during interview or Monday when I start will mean I'm being deceitful

tracynangel

Tracy Pimentel 💋

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

Is wait till after the first trimester

trezelle

Trezelle

В ожидании первенца

First and foremost congrats on your job and your baby!! And I agree with @phasion you don't have to say anything until you're further along.

deleted-user

deleted-user

No time soon it's not their business until you request your maternity leave . They will see once your belly get bigger

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