I need help so my cousin has had a baby a year ago when she first got pregnant she knew nothing I had to help her with everything and I had never been pregnant. now that I'm pregnant and I'm having a boy she wants to have another baby but she keeps trying to tell me I'm doing everything wrong all the way down to the pillows I sleep on. And the bad thing my mother and my doctor is telling me im doing great. what do I do? do I be my self and snap on her or do I be the new me and just let her talk
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even more of a reason to celebrate love ! Congratulations & be happyyy !
@cookiedevine, yes ma'am @mamateee thank you I can't help that I got pregnant and I can't help everybody is happy my son will be spoiled and he will be my last child so my doctor says
girl youu go ! You have your babyshower & dont pay her bitterself no mind ! screw thaat !
@cookiedevine, @mamateee I told her and now she is very mad telling me its no point in a baby shower everybody has already bought everything but I'm better inside now that iv gotten everything off my chest and I'm back to planning my baby shower and I'm not giving away my pillows just cause they are to fluffy
ppl been giving me "advice" on things to do with my baby since she was born, but at the end of the day I'm going to do what I want to do with my baby regardless so I take wat advice I need and leave wat I don't. I smile and nod and say ok at every piece of advice. ppl just genuinely want to help and do that by giving advice whether the advice is asked for or not
@phasion, I just put her in her place but all I told her was she just go get pregnant again and do it alone. and even if she don't like I'm gonna have my son a babyshower cause he is my miracle child I wasn't supposed to get pregnant. so now she mad and wants me to taker her and my little god daughter home in the rain
Lol ! Im in a similar situation with my sis im law all i can tell you in a nice way is screew what she thinks & enjoy your pregnancy! Dont let anyone steal your happiness! & why not show off your happiness. I would stay away from ant negativity specially at such a happy time of your life !
Do what makes you comfortable not anyone else. don't go off just continue to do things that make your pregnancy go smoothly.
@proud15, put her in her place not rudely but nicely remind her who helped who when she was pregnant and tell her you're doing what's best for you . Also tell her just stop with all the Dm madness baby shower is showering your unborn and getting blessed with gifts tell her you don't need that negativity . Ask her why she can't be positive for you and the baby . Talk to her I mean really talk to her make her realize that's she's wrong
just tell her every pregnancy is different and I going to do what I think is best for me.
@mamateee, yea I understand everybody does things different but I literally coached her through her whole pregnancy using Google and my mom. but now that I'm pregnant she is jealous cause now me and my son is getting all the attention and now she just so mad so everything is wrong she told me having a baby shower was wrong cause its showing off
1st off everyone does things different maybe you should speak your mind & let her know that. I know I would not be putting up with that.
she definitely sounds jealous, which isnt a good thing. Some people can't help how they feel, I'd ask her if she was jealous, then proceed to ask her why? what's her reason
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