long random post/rant:
My sisters are the worst at surprises :/ I'm disappointed that I figured out on my own they are throwing a surprise baby shower for me. She would call me and say "have dakota (my husband) call me when he gets a chance" they never talk and the fact that he always would wonder in the other room gave it away. I also knew because she keeps asking me weird questions when we hang out (they think I'm under the impression that I'm throwing my own) like who are you inviting to the baby shower? is there anyone I don't know your inviting? What are their names & are they on facebook? What theme are you doing? What day do you plan? well I told her due to preterm labor I am planning around 30 weeks to be safe and when I told her the date she kept telling me to push it back another two weeks she practically begged me to. Then I asked her how much the Anderson hall room was to rent out (because she rented it out for my SIL baby shower and would know) and she gave me this smile and told me "don't worry about it" so now I'm about 97% sure it's a surprise baby shower. *sign*. I really wish I didn't know. But I will be extremely thankful for what they are doing. just for once in my life I wish I didn't have a clue about something lol. I'm too nosey I guess.
@cjw1095, my hubby kinda gave it away because I wouldn't stop bugging him abiut it. He hasn't told me but when I ask he just keeps smiling. and the only other thing he said was "just act surprised okay" but he said there is alot more details to it more then i think so I guess I don't know everything ? lol he won't give no info up
I hate being out of the loop myself my fiance threw me a surprise one...I tried so hard to get him to tell me -_-
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What would you do? - baby shower
SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever...
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
I want to strangle my husband...
He just told me that I'm having a surprise baby shower and to act surprised and not to tell no one.. What kind of crap is that??? My last baby shower I planned every last detail.. But this one was a SURPRISE!!! I would have been really surprised since I told my family I didn't want a shower.. Lol ... Now I have to practice my surprise face in the mirror... I just feel like telling my mother that I know and help her plan.
loll awww