I tried standing up for myself, And all he did was say what's your problem and start yelling at me and being a jerk. I…

@babycasey, yeah we have similar relationships I was in an abusive relationship before I met my husband. And then spoiled him and felt unappreciated. But I started cutting back on things and it is getting better. We have been together 7 years and married 2 years. And this will be our first child. He still isn't jumping up to do a lot of stuff for me but he lets me take my breaks and do stuff for myself. I know he truly loves me. @butterflymommy as hard as it gets sometimes the most important thing is to put your self first in situations where he is treating you badly Or if not you first put your baby boy first. You know.

with* not ayer.... sorry

behavior doesn't get better ayer marriage, so I agree with @jrose114 ,I wouldn't marry anyone that talks to me that way. I've done the same as @jrose114 , I spoil the heck outta my hubs, but i felt he didn't appreciate me so I slowly cut back and with being pregnant I just can't keep up. Matter of fact, for the first in idk how long he got up with our almost 2yr old last night AND started laundry this morning... I about had a heart attack!! so stick to your guns. Before hubs I was in 9 year abusive relationship and was too scared to worry about just me and mine. It's not worth it. Let him be an ass, you just focus on you. He'll either hop on the train or leave him at the station. #realtalk

@jrose114,

I mean yeah. kinda

Is he close with his family

If he acts like that I wouldn't want to marry him.

me not muffs lol

@jrose114,

nope. he says he's gonna marry muffs but I doubt it

Yea that's scary. That would be kidnapping I think though You guys aren't married. @butterflymommy

@jrose114,

I don't know really. I feel like he's gonna wait till arians born then try and take him. I'm kinda scared to give birth. And ig be a mom

Well that's good at least you don't have to hear it all day. @butterflymommy How are you feeling with your pregnancy other than jerko being a jerk.

yes till like 7. @jrose114

Does he work all day?

I / you. Need to be healthy for ourselves and our baby's

Just slowly cut back on things you do for him. You need to take care of yourself. You know I spoil the crap out of my husband and feel like he doesn't even realize it or appreciate it always but since I have been pregnant I slowly started cutting back on things because I honestly can't do them He tells me oh whatever But I just stick to my decision to not do it wether he reacts like a dick or not.

Screw him he has serious issues. @butterflymommy

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@jrose114