I tried standing up for myself, And all he did was say what's your problem and start yelling at me and being a jerk. I told him to stay awake all night every night and try and be happy in the morning. he said I don't have a kid in me,that's not my problem. not your problem? not your problem. I can make it not your problem.
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behavior doesn't get better ayer marriage, so I agree with @jrose114 ,I wouldn't marry anyone that talks to me that way. I've done the same as @jrose114 , I spoil the heck outta my hubs, but i felt he didn't appreciate me so I slowly cut back and with being pregnant I just can't keep up. Matter of fact, for the first in idk how long he got up with our almost 2yr old last night AND started laundry this morning... I about had a heart attack!! so stick to your guns. Before hubs I was in 9 year abusive relationship and was too scared to worry about just me and mine. It's not worth it. Let him be an ass, you just focus on you. He'll either hop on the train or leave him at the station. #realtalk
Yea that's scary. That would be kidnapping I think though You guys aren't married. @butterflymommy
I don't know really. I feel like he's gonna wait till arians born then try and take him. I'm kinda scared to give birth. And ig be a mom
Well that's good at least you don't have to hear it all day. @butterflymommy How are you feeling with your pregnancy other than jerko being a jerk.
Just slowly cut back on things you do for him. You need to take care of yourself. You know I spoil the crap out of my husband and feel like he doesn't even realize it or appreciate it always but since I have been pregnant I slowly started cutting back on things because I honestly can't do them He tells me oh whatever But I just stick to my decision to not do it wether he reacts like a dick or not.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I wish I could do this all day and night. He sleeps in his bassinet at night though with no problems. He hardly ever wakes me up, which is kind of a problem because it's so hard for me to get up to an alarm to wake him up to feed.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
THIS IS A QUESTION FOR BREASTFEEDING MOMS ! anyone else have the problem of your baby wanting to be on your breast all the time and if hes not he crys and fusses 24/7.?????and i dont feel full anymore and its worrying me .
To all BBers...
I just wanted to let you all know I am thankful that you guys look out for one another, always give your opinion, and try to make people feel better when they are feeling down...you women are amazing...have a blessed night/day...☺️
@babycasey, yeah we have similar relationships I was in an abusive relationship before I met my husband. And then spoiled him and felt unappreciated. But I started cutting back on things and it is getting better. We have been together 7 years and married 2 years. And this will be our first child. He still isn't jumping up to do a lot of stuff for me but he lets me take my breaks and do stuff for myself. I know he truly loves me. @butterflymommy as hard as it gets sometimes the most important thing is to put your self first in situations where he is treating you badly Or if not you first put your baby boy first. You know.