I give up. I'm done trying get him to follow thru with anything. he says well have a good night tonight and he's sleeping. he's been sleeping since 6. he always wants foot rubs and back rubs, and I stay up till 2AM doing his laundry, I wake up early to make his lunch and coffee. And I even wake him up to feed him so he doesn't go to bed hungry, I make sure he has everything for work, and I pretty much do everything. he spent his entire paycheck last week and I gave him the only 50$ I had to my name so he could make it to work till he gets paid again. did I get a thank you for any of those? no. I get him sleeping all day every second he's off work, and being an asshole to me when I miss something.
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Okay. @jrose114 thanks. foreal. I never have anyone to talk to fr. And @phasion tell me about it. And he'd never offer me a foot rub. he won't even offer a belly rub. when I ask him to feel where my son is moving he says oh I've felt it before he does that all the time. even if it feels the same, idc if I ask you to feel it then feel it
Lol I bet he is cussing him out!! If you ever need to talk just msg me k
that makes sense. lol I used to wonder if he did that because he was happy to hear his daddy or was warning me to stay away. @jrose114
Yeah definitely a belly phase. Or else he is cussing him out cause the way he treating you.
@jrose114, hopefully. he doesn't really like to move or anything unless he hears his daddy somewhere close by. So hopefully it's just a belly phase
Well If you stick it out try to look out for yourself cause it sounds like he won't. Spoil him like he is expecting you to but make sure you spoil yourself to. Start making it your life with him in it. You know? Luckily you will have your boy who will most likely be a mammas boy
@butterflymommy, that relationships isn't healthy for you or your baby. I know it's not easy but you have to do what you have to !
@jrose114, I feel like I can't really leave. I think I want to but my son. I don't want him to grow up without HIS dad. And he says he will fight me for custody, and being up my entire past to win. I don't have much fight in me left. he destroyed my fight
All of this sounds like me and my ex husband. We don't have any kids together but he always treated me like that. We were together almost two years before his mom pushed us to get married. It got really bad then. I told him he needs to change he's ways with me or I'm done. And well he never changed and now I'm with my baby's daddy and he treats me like a queen. I've never been spoiled my whole life. So when he goes and buys me things I tell him no I don't need it yes I would like it but I don't need it. And he gets it anyways. Everyone needs a man like mine who puts he's girl first and talks things out when things get heated. I hope you can get him to do the same thing. And if not I hope you find one that will love you and the baby :)
I was in an abusive relationship before I met my husband and I was afraid to tell anyone and afraid to leave. One of my boyfriends friends at the time told my sister who then got my husband now to come and get me out of the relationship. Without him i probably would still be in that abusive relationship or worse. So please if it is this bad now and he is controlling find someone in your family that you trust to talk to and help you be strong and tell him your done.
@jrose114, friends? I don't have ANY of those. I'm from Kentucky. I stayed with my aunt in Illinois while passing to move to Montana and met him and stayed in Illinois. people don't like me. I've never been one to deal with fake friends. And so I chose to keep my circle to me. people around here are fake and I just think it's better that they stay away, that and he likes to cheat. So I don't need other girls hanging around with me. ya know? I'm fine hanging with him and his guys bc I won't cheat. But not him
@jrose114, everyone thinks I'm a mean person but to him I can't be like ugh. I try and it gets me no where. he always wants to say it's over when we argue but when I say it he's like really? after all we've been thru? like what? And I even gave him my phone to use when he's at work because he broke his, and now he thinks he owns It, he gives the number to everyone and is currently hiding my own Damn phone from me somewhere. I'm so close to leaving, I just don't know if I can do it. @deejones
You are a gorgeous girl and any guy would be crazy not to treat you right. Please don't settle with him because you think you have to . Does he restrict you from having friends?
Yeah you have to put you and the baby first screw him. Will your family be by your side if you left him. ? Is it a possibility or are you scared to leave?
I know it's hard especially when you love him and now your having a baby together but it won't get any better if you don't put a stop to it. Trust me. It won't and it gets exhausting. I love my husband more than anything but the way he treats me sometimes is uncalled for and when he does it he hears it from me It's not right
funny thing is we haven't even been together for a year. we got pregnant when we were just messing around and he only started being with me bc my family pressured him behind my back. like you can't just use someone like that. he claims the love is real now but how do I know that ya know? @jrose114
@butterflymommy, stop doing all that stuff for him. If he starts being mean you be worse.
For example he is waiving his hand in my face to rub it lol my problem is I spoiled him when we first started dating now he expects it. But we have been together for 7 years
@jrose114, I tell him when I'm hurting and when I'm tired and everything and he just tells me I complain too much. And when I get contractions he laughs at me like it's funny.
I think you just explained my husband! I swear I don't feel appreciated sometimes. But what is helping is me speaking up. I tell him when I'm tired and just can't do it Or if he doesn't like it then do it himself. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't depending on his mood. I told he has over prepared me for being a mom. That this baby might be our first baby but he is one big baby that I take care of daily lol. I don't know if you do but it's good to speak up and let him know your tired or that you don't feel good.
I've tried being a total drag and a mean ads but then he starts being one too. like I can't get a break here. I don't sleep bc if I do he will hit me and kick me in his sleep. he never does any of those things for me. he doesn't even care. he doesn't touch me ever. And I'm starting to feel completely used. @mrsvelasquez
sounds like you need to stop so nice to him. Sorry to say, but, being a bitch pays off.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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IUI Monday!!
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@butterflymommy, this is sad smh I hate seeing and hearing stuff like this but hopefully you'll find the strength to leave and do bad all by yourself ! Women are strong creatures !