this day.... I'm over it. can I go to bed and start over? First I wake up and my son dumped my entire spice rack I'll aver the floor, then the fiance isn't responding to me, and...

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this day.... I'm over it. can I go to bed and start over? First I wake up and my son dumped my entire spice rack I'll aver the floor, then the fiance isn't responding to me, and He got a job offer today that puts him gone days at a time.. he applied and didn't even ask what I thought. he can be gone anywhere from 3 to 6 days and the home 2..... I have 10 weeks left in this pregnancy, it's high risk, I have a 3 year old who has to. see a behavioral therapist because he has self worth and self harm issues,.... and I feel overwhelmed. how am I supposed to handle all this when he won't be home at night to be my rock.... so stressed doesn't even cover how I feel not to mention having to deal with my sons mood swings all while dealing with the schedule a new baby brings..... I just want to cry.

mommawilson · Answer

well he already has his CDLS. so we wont lose money. but he already worked over the road once when we were trying to conceive but he hated being away from us... so I know he is going to be miserable once his daughter is born.

Catherine Hughes · Answer

@mommawilson, I actually had the same thing happen to me. My husband left in my second trimester to go get his CDL license to drive a big rig and I was heart broken but we couldn't pass up the opportunity. He ended up realizing he couldn't leave me by myself and not see his son born and he came home. Wasted tons of time and money...but I guess he learned family is more important than money.

mommawilson · Answer

@catehughes, he just knows that he can make more money at this other job.... he's worried about making sure we have enough.... But all I want is him. and I wish he would see that

Catherine Hughes · Answer

@mommawilson, Do you think he took the job because he wants his space? Like for real, he signed up for a family...now he wants to support it by avoiding it? I'd be in one baaad mood.

mommawilson · Answer

@catehughes,

mommawilson · Answer

Nope! I figured if he cared how I felt and how this effects me he would have asked. But he didn't... he applied behind my back and is all excited about it. So I guess Ill be the the strong woman life has forced me to be and handle it in my own way while He does what he wants!

Catherine Hughes · Answer

@mommawilson, no kidding. My mother keeps asking me if I'm ok...like she knows I'm about to explode but my husband acts so damn confident I just want to kick him in his smug face. Why are we the ones who have to birth a human being and still have to have a stiff upper lip?! Are you going to try to tell him how you feel about the new job?

mommawilson · Answer

@catehughes, it's stressful for sure.. especially when he has faith that I can handle this but he's not seeing me fall apart

Catherine Hughes · Answer

Wow...I feel your pain. My husband is driving me nuts with his job search too. Most of my other issues are with my pregnancy being high risk and family drama. But put a toddler on top of that and I'd probably scream. I feel for you. I hope things get better. 💖

mommawilson · Answer

thanks @uhmandaxconrad92

Amanda · Answer

I am so sorry that's terrible!!!! I'm here for you even though is far from the same!!!! 💗

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