any mums that have had a big gap betwewn their kids? my gap is 9 years, its all new to me again and worrying a bit about…

yea true. the anticipation is just too much lol

every birth is different so worrying will achieve nothing positive. My approach to pregnancy, birth and parenting has always been to trust my instincts. Nothing bad has happened to date.... the rules keep changing and I continue to ignore them. My health visitors always despaired of me and my obstetricians hated me....midwives seemed to see me as a challenge and embraced me though lol. yep I'm a rebel

im so nervous about giving birth. second time mums are meant to have quicker births, but does that count when there are so many years in between lol

my youngest is 15yrs old, so much has changed you so this you cant do that you need all these different tests, Iv found myself questioning what I know what I remember doing all them years ago I feel like 1st time mum all over again and labour well I havent even thought about that x

I have 4! My others are 12 and 10 so I haven't had a big gap yet

@bubble I do feel like a first time mum again it's been 18 yrs lol.

I'm feeling pretty good about it tho just nervous.

hopefully it's like riding a bike haha :-)

@zeld how are you feeling about it? youve done it once before, did you just fall back into the habit as ppl say to me lol

my eldest is 17 but my youngest is 7 (will be almost 8 by the time jellybean arrives) I feel totally out of my depth starting all over again!!

woah that is big! @bee1979 do you feel a bit like you've forgotten everything? like your a new mum? x

Hi hun my first is 18 yr old now.

I'm due in December so very large age gap.

my daughter still lives with me and is so happy to have a new brother or sister on the way.

I'm a bit scared of giving birth I had c section with my daughter so first time for me