Really down today. Me and my fiancée have never had a fight and we have been together for over a…
Really down today. Me and my fiancée have never had a fight and we have been together for over a years and never had a fight. Last night we did. We just moved in together and my Daughter woke up with a night terror and was crying her eyes out and running around. She doesn't really know anyone when she's like that and she acted scared of him. And I said you seem scared of something and he got up really upset and said I'll just sleep in there. I told him to please don't and he kept walking. I didn't know he didn't hear me so i got very upset and started crying. She started screaming when he left because she thought he was mad at her. So I followed him. And he was crying too. He came over and said he was sorry after about 20 minutes. I couldn't stop crying. She finally got calmed down and drank a bottle or 2 and started coloring.
I started having contractions that were really painful to the point I had to call my parents to come get my Daughter because I thought we might be heading to the hospital. We ended up laying in bed both crying and saying we were sorry. I finally fell asleep around one and the contractions got better. We woke up this morning and we weren't fighting but we both didn't wanna leave because he's going to be with his Brother for 3 days and I didn't wanna leave things like that. He messaged me at work and told me he was so sorry and that he loved me. I'm still just out of it. We've never fought. Ever. That's not us. We don't fight. 😔
missing41user·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
He sounds like an awesome guy. Don't stress it. It was just a bad night that you 2 will get through. This will pass.
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@queeneden, He's amazing. That's why the fight hurt so much. I've never been so scared of arguing with someone. I know that everything will pass. I just got so scared that maybe he changed his mind about this being what he wanted.
missing41user·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
I understand. It might be a good idea to sit down and talk to him about her night terrors and the best way to handle them. He sounds like he wanted to help but didn't know how. Keep your communication open with him so he knows how he can help in the future.
Shawna Santistevan·
My fiancé and I never fight. And when we do it's bad. But honestly we never go more than an hr being mad at each other we always say sorry. It hurts but now that you've had the first fight you know even if you have petty arguments that he is gonna stick by you
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@queeneden, He know about them. He just didn't understand what was going on. Her eyes were open so he though she was awake. But that's how she is. I explained it later and he said he overreacted. He just thought she wanted him to leave.
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@santistevanmommie, I know he will never leave. He just never acts like that and it was really scary. I've never seen him so upset. After my Parents came and got her he held me and cried for about 10 minutes just saying he was sorry. I knew something had been wrong a dinner because he didn't say much when my family was over. He said he was worried about supporting us. I assured him I knew we could handle it and we have so many people who will help us. He said he knew but he was still worried. We had asked my Grandparents for money and I think he feels like we failed. They gave us $50 because his last check was short because they didn't give him his raise. And he's been worried ever since. I told him we are in this together and ill work if I need to after the baby comes. And that he doesn't always have to be so strong. It's okay to talk and cry.
Shawna Santistevan·
My fiancé does the same thing. He's always worried about money and I get it. That's part of the reason we are moving from where we are now. I always try to help him to understand that it's okay to get help and to feel overwhelmed and wanna cry. I think it's a guy thing to be that way
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@santistevanmommie, I felt so bad. Because he was so upset about it.