it's a vicious cycle and it will continue if you allow it. I hope you figure it out.

don't listen to that other chick either I grew up from a broken home and my kids do too ands that's not the way to a happy life.

@jomommaclark, Very. But it's not even about the mothers day gift, I'll have more mothers days. It's that my daughter is being pushed to the back burner every time his other daughter asks for something. But then when I say something about leaving, he gets upset and doesn't wanna lose us. Go figure.

if that's the way he is now it isn't going to change girl.

that's hurtful

@mamas_mia, I don't know what u going through but I understand what u were saying..he needs to get his priorities in order..and u never said u should come before his daughter..

His child should come before me, and I never said she shouldn't. But she shouldn't always come before his other daughter as well. "I don't have money to buy groceries (including formula and diapers for our daughter) but I have money to send my 13 year old on a double date when she's supposed to be grounded for sneaking around with her bf? But you have to spend all of your money so I can have the money to give my daughter because I don't know how to say no when she asks to go to the movies twice a week. " really? No. There's no Jealousy, it's being sick and tired of Princess' every whim and want being put before our daughter. It's not being jealous or immature,, it's called being fed up with the same bullshit for the last 2 years, and watching my daughter get the shaft. @kimberlyyyy

This is gunna come off bitchy, but I wouldn't expect any relationship to be about the girlfriend before the first born child. My son will ALWAYS come before my fiancé. You got involved with a man who has a kid, that kid (spoiled teenager or not) should come before you. You CHOSE to be a step mom figure or at least chose to be with this man knowing he has a kid. Yeah, I can understand being annoyed that she gets money to go hang out & you don't get a Mother's Day gift, but that's HIS first baby(I'm guessing she's the first born); I'm guessing he wants his daughter to go have fun and live her life. You can't be jealous of his daughter. I find it weird there's less of a gab between her & your age then his and yours, but whatever if it works it works, but you sound jealous and immature. Of course you want your daughter to be taken care of and hopefully he will take care of her, but maybe this is a sign things aren't working out? Or that you need to talk to him and & he needs to control his kid? I don't know. I was just taken back by your post. Call me a bitch, but that's MY personal opinion on it. Hopefully he has a secret plan to make your Mother's Day a good day.