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@nathaneals_mommy, lol you sound like my parents,they stopped talking to me becaise i decided on something like this. Lol I know and i mean know and see that its not normal like this,but what is normal these days nothibg anymore whats Abnormal is Normal these days.. Well my choice of.life is Him cheating out there or him having a reliable gf. Im Completely OK with this,i dont need and dont want anyone feeling sorry or bad for me. He isnt forcing me Its my choice to try it out. And by the way people live together and love eachother for 20,30,40 yrs and they divorce at old age thinking something better or different out there when at the end they end up alone.

....stop loving you.

girl, he's your husband. he married you. getting married isn't a game...its supposed to be a special bond between two people..not three or four. when you marry someone your committing your everything to them. I'm honestly heart broken right bow that you think this is ok. 😢

you should t walk into a relationship thinking oh he loves me....but will chest on me so I might as well just let him call me his wife but still act single. babe that's not right. and I don't want you to think I'm bashing you or arguing. I'm in just complete shock.

when a man or a woman truly loves someone that's all they should need.

I don't loose my virginity to the man I'm with now, but he just like you is my first love. I couldn't imagine sleeping with someone else.

and like you said you love him...he's your first love...and what I'm seeing by what you write is that bc you love him you don't want anyone else? right? ok, then what makes you believe he loves you the way you love him if he could do this to you? and once again I'm not saying he doesn't love you... I'm kinda trying to help my self understand this. but its not working. that's good you guys don't fight....and you get along. but guess what.....me and my man don't fight...we don't argue. yeah we get on eachothers nerves every once on a while. but that's a relationship. a relationship should be 4 things. you, them, trust, and communication.

I said im not allowed to see other men, but if i was I wouldn't @nathaneals_mommy im not mad cause you said this. I know its hard/ different to comprehend and see something like this.

@nathaneals_mommy, why thank you. lol 😍😘

@nathaneals_mommy, Your right all that you said, i agree it should be that way. But its not and nothing in this world life isnt the way we want things unfortunately. Thats one and only weak spot for my husband. We all are not perfect we cant provide everything for others. I can leave him i could have before the baby but I didnt. I decided on this was my choice to stay or leave but imay not have lost my virginity to him but he is my first true love i love so much that i got along with him doing this,even if shd wasnt his gf,he would still cheat on me with other girls. But this one gave him her virginity and she is clean she doesnt f**k around,thats important to us. I told him when you stop loving me and i you thats when ill leave.

@queenquee, lol well when I'm honestly curious about something I won't hold back. but I'm glad I said it for you lol

@nathaneals_mommy, right I feel the same way. I'm shocked . that's literally the first time I've heard something like this. but she have her reasons so I left it at that. but what u said is so real cause I been wanting to say that just couldn't find the words..

@queenquee, I'm not trying to argue or anything I'm just so...shocked? idk I'm trying to understand this all lol

wait....

even if you where "ALOUD"to see other men...why wouldn't you?

@nathaneals_mommy, 👏👏 i feel the same way you feel. exactly how u feel. i feel.. you took the words out my mouth that I been wanting to say for the longest..

Your right @tiffany09 You are the only one that noticed that part. Yes Im a quiet/down to earth/no attitude / not a backstaber/ get along with anyone and wont argue kinda person.And thats why he choose me for a wife/mother through life High five to you girl for noticing!!!

well...that's not fair.

just bc you get what you want he's aloud to go have sex with other woman while your home taking care of his son?

I mean yes it's your life and your choice. but honestly how can you be ok with your man going out with another woman? pleasuring another woman? another woman pleasuring him!? if he loved you the way you loved him he shouldn't need anyone else besides you and his son. and I mean this is all my opinion. I've cheated before...BC I wasn't happy. my man now also cheated bc he wasn't happy...but that was past relationships, since we have been together I've never even thought of another man, and I mean he may have...but he's never nor would he ever chest on me.

I stay at home and don't have to work, I clean and cook and will be caring for our son. trust is a huge thing...what is he going to do when you want to settle down and want him for yourself?

@senadas4_14_2015, well like I said u have your reasons. no judging.. everybody have there opinion

hey, you're doing something right if your the one he chose to marry. kudos ☺ I like it!

@nathaneals_mommy, No im not allowed,and if i was i wouldnt do it. In our house My husband is the boss his word is the last,he treats me fair/loves/cares/honest with me,We have one checking account, He works i dont/ dont have to dont want to, I can buy/have anything i want. And everything is paid off/No credit on paying cash. We are not Rich. Just Work/Think as ONE.

@queenquee @laura_love @anqiee323

@senadas4_14_2015, I will be a single person with a (little toy) before I give my man permission to sleep with another woman yet be with one.

Like i said sooner or later marriages /relationship will corrupt because no one agrees on things anymore. Both sides are stubborn. @queenquee

welll.... are you aloud to have another boyfriend.

girls are just as scandalous as men, so he say date other men?

Yes, ma'am. As long as you're happy. That's what matters (:

right I just have a lot of faith he want cheat. haven't cheated yet not that I know of. I can't lay next to someone at night knowing he got another gf. oh lord no.

Your choice,my choice! B-)@laura_love

I just trust that he's the 5% that wouldn't cheat.

Yea Today Millennium Guys become Girls And Girls become Guys. Thats why Marriage doesnt last/Everyone has attitude. But what will you do after you run out of choices?? @laura_love @anqiee323 @queenquee

@senadas4_14_2015, yes I see. lol but nothing is wrong with it. you have your reasons.

Yup "Im different im different yea im different " hahaha. @queenquee

@laura_love,

No one likes to share. But tell me is you husband/bf with you 24/7 that he doesnt have time to be out there to cheat Or if the guy is Pu**y and he definitely wont cheat.

@anqiee323, hell Yea I would leave that MF. !

@senadas4_14_2015, you to real in the game.. oh lord hunny I salute you cause I couldn't do it shit I want do it. ! Never in life. ion wanna share my man. But that's what's up I like that about you, you're different.

Extra girlfriend? I couldn't do that. No way. I don't share, haha. I've always wanted to go to New York

Not right now he wont. But if it happens accidentally (99% it wont) And she is desperate of course but he told her You wanna be with me or not be with me if you force me to leave it inside and he isnt ready to have with her kids. If they do both decide to have (i dont care) and after their kids if she isnt good to him,like he said to.me also either i will leave or you will but i will pay child support. @queenquee @anqiee323

I would kill my man xD lol nah I would just leave him...

yeah how would u?

@senadas4_14_2015, you right. you brave though. so what if he got her pregnant? how would u react ?

Yea. I think as long as you Get along,be honest and loves/cares for you anything is possible even in this situation agreeing on that. @queenquee

@senadas4_14_2015, ohhhh wowwwww. I couldn't imagine lol

Yup,and we get along pretty good. Yea not many cases out there @queenquee

You agreed to let him have an extra girlfriend. wow. first I've ever heard.