I didn't want anything to do either sex after I had my baby. I didn't want to til I got my IUD put in which was 8 weeks later. I wasn't really interested in sex Lol

@forever_1127, all depends on what color they are some doctors use black, or blue, or even clear all depends on what they have when you deliver I guess. I know they are the ones that when healed they fall out though. Wherever you ripped or were cut look in that area, and like Megan C said you might need to use your fingers to open up and look inside of you, I had them in a few different places when I had them. @meganc most likely they fell out, I would see them when id pee or I would wipe they would fall out little by little. Start off with letting him finger you, or even you do it to yourself and see because my actual insides were sore as hell after too, my first I got stitches and it took 3 months to have sex again haha, my second I had no stitches so 3 weeks in I was ok and had sex, it hurt alittle but nothing like the first time.

@forever_1127, it took me a minute too find them but mine are like in my clit area so I kinda had to open up. And seen little stitches. @mizzmeganmae thank you for your input that's very true that would totally suck to start all over again. But just like you I thought I had ripped one cause it was kinda painful down there but now that I've taken a mirror down there I see nothing. @imbecca143 yes!! Omg I loved sex and then being pregnant totally made it a huge turn off

Oh okayy But idk what im looking for can you tell if they are there?? Is it that noticeable?? @mizzmeganmae

@forever_1127, I personally would check by hand and even took a mirror and checked a couple of times to see how they were healing and my ex checked for me one day because i felt like a ripped a stitch and I couldn't see anything.

How so you know when you stitches have fallen out?? @mizzmeganmae

@meganc, I had stitches as well from a vaginal birth and I know all women are different but I would wait another week or so. And if your stitches have fell out yet I wouldn't have sex. If you rush it and don't wait until you are completely healed you are going to do worse damage and have to be restitched and have to start the waiting process all over again. Start with him fingering you and see how that feels, get creative haha there's more than just sex to have fun with your SO. But remember you are ridiculously fertile so use protection because you will get pregnant

Isn't it weird how sex is gross when your pregnant lol before getting preggo I was a horn dog with my bf but then soon as I got pregnant it was the weirdest grossest thing ever!!! Finally just now kinda liking it again @meganc

@bhthanselman, lol exactly. When I was pregnant sex was so gross to me. But now I'm like omg I would rather try now then continue with that shit!!

You're welcome! I hear ya! I thought I'd want nothing to do with sex and be totally okay with head lol but I was like I can't take this anymore! Lol.

@bhthanselman, that's very true thank you so much!! Cause I'm not down for head 24/7 I want some too 😂😂

I had sex at three weeks exactly probably woulda been sooner too, I'm pretty sure I probably still had stitches at the time too. Just go slow. If it hurts stop. But you can always try!

@mrscox414, that's true he always says let me start slow lol

@bhthanselman, it will be three weeks on wednesday

i started having sex 2 weeks after. but i had a c section. start out slow and if it isnt painful then do what you will. lol.