Quick question ladies. My husbands side of the family just pisses me off. They are not involved in…
Quick question ladies. My husbands side of the family just pisses me off. They are not involved in my sons life and I always have to go out of my way to take my son hours away so they can see him. They are constantly sending me negative messages on how I should stop complaining about how I've been feeling and they will even write negative things on my fb. They expect me to to drop every I'm doing so they can see my son. They don't do not a damn thing for him or us PERIOD! They don't even call to see how he's doing. Now they are upset with me because I won't let my son stay with them or I won't sleep over when I go over there. Do you guys think I'm wrong for keeping my son away from them?
samantha·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
hell no. they sound like they dont deserve a relationship with him. you keep being a great mother and dont worry about them
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
Yes like my mother came down to Jersey (where I live) from Virgina and didn't even bother to come to see my son at all. Like it works both ways just like I have to go out of my way so can they. I don't even drive I have to take a bus to get to where they are and they have a car.
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@suresti,
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
i meant mother in law @suresti
samantha·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
you know why are you going to do all these things from them when they dont care or get anything in return. I would stop doing all that and they will soon realize that they need to step up @jassyburton62612
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
Oh it's been months since the last time I let them see my son. They just kept on with the negativity on FB so I deleted them. I just wanted to make sure I was making the right decisions. @suresti
leahsky·
Мама дочки-младенца
If they make No effort on coming to see your son they have no reason to be upset. If they really want time spend time with him I'm sure they know Where you live. @suresti
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
Thanks ladies. For a minute I was starting to feel bad but I know my feelings are valid and my decision was correct. @leahsky @suresti
Alana·
В ожидании первенца
@jassyburton62612, I know the feeling your in, my fiance family barely asks how I'm doing with this pregnancy and his sister got into our business and was trying to tell me what I should do and shouldn't do. I wasn't having it. And he's own mother doesn't even ask how I am and the boys. The only family that really seems to care is mine. And my fiance mother said she'll only have the boys over when she wants them over. I'm sorry but that's not how a grandparent should be. Sometimes I honestly don't want her to see them at all cause she never asks if the pregnancy is going okay or anything like that.
leahsky·
Мама дочки-младенца
Your welcome, trust me i would do the same.
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
You are absolutely right. My mom (my family) is is the one who helps me my side of the family will go to hell and back for my son and his side doesn't care st all. They even tried telling me not to vaccinate my son and kept besting ot in my mans head to convince me not to vaccinate him because all the vaccines caused autism and we would fight bad about that. I'm glad he saw things my way in the end and my son got all his required shots. @littleredcutie20
Jasmine·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
beating*
Alana·
В ожидании первенца
@jassyburton62612, Yeah, and honestly the mother really has a say in who see the child. Cause I know my family will move heaven and earth to see their grand babies. And be there every step of the way like they are now. When my fiance mother said that she only wants them over when she wants them I was in shock because I'd thought that wasn't right. It's gonna suck for her if she wants them and my parents already have them for the day. I honestly don't think she'll be around much. she barely sees her other grand kids. I'm just glad my family had been there from day one. I really hope everything gets better. If it were me I'd keep my sons away from them still. I wouldn't care what they thought of me. They are my children and I'll say who gets to see them.