I've been depressed most of this pregnancy at the beginning I thought about adoption but I've grown…

everyone is scared when the day gets closer, but if you feel that adoption is the best option don't beat yourself up about it. when I had my son the first few days I begged my mom to keep him lol I was terrified I kept saying I wasn't gonna be a good mother because I didn't know how to do anything and guess what, I learned and I try to be the best I can for my kids I'm not perfect and I never tend to be but I'm trying to be the best and that's good you'll be ok

Thanks for the advice I'm no longer considering adoption, I'm just scared that I won't be able to handle it it's my first child and idk I already have to do it alone and I just don't want to do it wrong @jenii

I was the same way... very scared but guess what girlfriend once you see that precious baby you're going to experience a different love. He's going to be your best friend and your everything . you'll do just great . keep a positive mind and positive heart!! you go girl!!!

@mamabear01 Thanks darling I just gotta keep praying God gives me strength to keep pushing forward. I'm kinda happy I found this app cause I can finally talk to people who understand without being judged

I understand exactly where you coming from. I had my first baby at 13 baby daddy walked out. momma left. only body I had was my daddy. I was terrified. Didn't know what to do I was so young and lost. I felt the same way, not wanting to do it wrong.. but in your baby eyes you're perfect. and dam being wrong as long as you're trying nobody can knock you for trying. cause practice makes perfect. so guess what my son is 4 and this is my 3rd baby I'm pregnant with. and my 2 living ones is well taking care of. keep faith and stay strong. pray cause even when everyone around you is gone.. "GOD IS STILL THERE" HE NEVER PUT NUN ON U THAT YOU COULDN'T HANDLE.. @zamirsmom

you will be the best mom to your baby. ik u will..

@queenquee Thanks for that cause other people stories kind of help didn't know if I was the only one who felt like that or not.. but thanks that helps so much

I agree with @queenquee in your child's eyes you're always perfect!! I always think I'm doing something wrong and my son always tells me I'm the best mom ever! that's all the reassurance I need

Thanks Ladies

@zamirsmom, yes!! and I'm sure all of us on here can relate!! :)

@zamirsmom, you welcome. I went through it but came out of that. cause no matter what your baby is going to love you through thick and thin. rain or sleet you child will be there. still thinking his mom is perfect. so no need to stress you will do fine love 😘😘 @jenii right that's why I love my kids. cause they uplift you any kind of way without even trying.

@queenquee Thanks I think tonight my hormones are just getting to me badly

@zamirsmom, everybody have them days I had one last night. prayed and felt all better. wish you the best.

Thanks darling that's probably what I'll do when I get home pray over me and my baby