Please no one hate me on here, but I'm 19 about to be 9 weeks & I've been thinking a lot & how hard life is gonna be & I could NEVER have an abortion but I've really been looking at adoption. But I feel like I won't be able to do it... That's really big & idk. I just feel like I can't do it because I have no help... I just feel like giving up. :(
It can be scary either way I have my fiance I still get scared sometimes cuz we argue scared Ill lose him becuz of it I guess worrying is just apart of being a woman and especially a momma (we want the best for our kids) and getting stuff done lol I love my fiance but if I always waited on his butt nothing will ever get done but he is there emotionally think that's what helps me so its understandable to want that certian security and knowing there's someone to lean on hang in there!
@bbtoothrowedsmommy, it is the scariest thing in the world but girl just remember it will be the most rewarding thing in your life and if you did keep it you would never regret it. It will be so hard but it is so possible dear 💝
Thanks ladies, I hope I can do this. It's just knowing that I'm doing it alone is what scares me... & then I feel like what if I never find someone who loves my child as much as I do? It's just so scary... @anqiee323 @prego_again @caracross1 @jguinan1029 @joshsmommy
that's f'd up what he said girl you got this you sure as hell dont need him in your life being disrespectful like that.your not a piece of trash niether is ur baby your a beautiful strong woman there is nothing better then doing your best for you and your child and proving the world wrong even proving yourself wrong that is the best because in the end you know u accomplished something great and all that matters us how u feel bout it not the next person.like someone said there's WIC it helps a lot I'm having my first in July trust in your self maybe even push past comfort zones and shoot for great goals doesn't have to be 100% just ur best :)
I was 19 when I got pregnant with my first. His dad did not want the baby and his mom tried to make my dad to get me to abort or put it up for adoption. I kept my child and he is now 6
When I was 19 I gave my baby up for adoption. It was an open adoption so I get letters and pictures from him. It was the best decision for both of us at that time in my life and I have never regretted my decision.
if ur sure ur keeping the baby there are lots of programs to help u throw the pregnancy and get diapers. find a friend in ur area let her be ur rock or a relative. it's hard but it is possible and once ur baby is here ull do the best u can and that's all the baby will want or need
@ab, @spud @anqiee323 thanks girls, I just tried talking to my baby's father last night & asked him if he could come stay with me then he actually replied & said yes, after weeks of not talking to him, then I asked what time & he said after I'm done fucking my babymama, & I was like you know what that's fine & he was like it is fine stop bugging me. & it just tore me to pieces. I never ever treated him bad, the reason why he stopped talking to me was because I posted things on Facebook. That's why he "doesn't wanna help me" he's ridiculous.
Girl If I Did it You Could Do It Too I Got Pregnant at 13 had Him at 14 ... Now I'm 17 Having Another Baby It Might Be Hard At First...But Everything Will Get Better ♡
Well depending on your state there is state assistance you may be able to get to help you. I'm on WIC and it's such a help
Hang in there mama it's rough once that baby is here nothing else will matter but that baby I remember holding my son and I didn't know how much I could love someone until then you will meet a great guy one day who will treat you and your baby amazing
@spud, @lovelyyanaa @ftm-jess @prego_again I just don't have it in me to give the baby away, I feel like I wouldn't be able to handle watching someone else raise my child...💔
Hang in there with my first son I was a emotional wrack because my son father cheated on me with 5 other women told me my son wasn't his and put me through so much I thought to myself how will I raise my son how will I do this with a lot of support from family and friends I didn't put my son up for adopting and now I'm married and have another son just cause time is rough right now doesn't mean it won't get better hang in there be strong because at the end that baby will be your everything ❤️ and if you do adopting there's tons families out there looking for a baby this is your decision and only you can choose what you want keep strong hon
adoption is a loving option u may want to find a family u know and are close to that can't adopt... like gay couples can't in some places... just something to consider
Don't give up! you could look into open adoption where you will still be able to see your child grow up and have a relationship with.
Don't give up!! Everything happens for a reason and everything falls into place put your trust in whoever you believe. Be positive always. 💗 good luck
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