@njf1216, thanks

You can have one and call it a "Sprinkle" instead of a "shower"

I am having one and this is our 3rd child 2nd boy. My oldest son was born in January almost 4 years ago and we have only the big items still.

I would think it's still acceptable when it's been 4 years. I want to have a baby shower for this little one.

thanks ladies your advice is very much appreciated ;) @jackiemommyof2 @deidra.lashell @tae23

Mine is the same gender but I gave everything away! lol And we absolutely had nothing.

I'm having one I was the same way but my parents and aunts told me since it a girl and it has been 4 years ago I need one

wouldn't it*

@jackiemommyof2, & wouldn't make sense especially if new baby is the opposite sex of the first... lol

that's usually if you go by the "traditional" which is from so,many years ago. I feel like if you have nothing and it's been a while why not. each baby should have pictures to see how everyone loved him/her before they were even born

I'm actually having two with my second. They are just small ones though. But it's been almost 2 year.

thanks @tae23 I've heard people say you're not supposed to

yes (: my mom had one when she had her 4th six years ago cause she had nothing.