So I'm a FTM not due til Oct 23rd. The child's father aka "donor" told me to have an abortion. Obviously I would never do that. He is getting married the same month I'm due. I had to tell his family because now he is denying it's his because him & fiance are having trouble conceiving. Now he claims he wants to be in the baby's life and the baby to have his last name. But he said I can't have his contact info. I'm almost 15 weeks. I've had to block him and his entire family from causing so much drama. I have no intention of giving the baby his last name or putting his name on the birth certificate. I don't care if doesn't care about me but he wanted to kill a baby then denys it. He hasn't even asked me if the baby was fine or anything. Am I wrong for not having him in my child's life.
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@lovebugsmom26, my feelings exactly I have one friend who said she would drive down otherwise I have no one
@dessie0621, that's awful I'm sorry. But the people who are gonna miss out ate the ones that aren't there. I'm sure as soon as you hold and see that baby you're gonna be so happy. Are you allowed to have friends with you.
I'm 36. Due to complications i might get induced next week. All alone in the delivery room. But I've been alone my entire pregNncy. Because of the circumstances my mother stopped talking to me because she heard he was being an asshole
does anyone know if you don't list them on the birth certificate and the dna test is done he still has no rights until we would go to court?
@dessie0621, I am so sorry I couldn't imagine. how far along are you
okay just checking :) but he has no say until its proven he's the dad
thank you girls! I told him that he was going to have to pay for the dna test. I don't trust him nor his family
@gillianamy, no he is the dad I just refer to him as a donor sorry
I'm kind of in your shoes. My donor told me if I can't give him money when he needs it then I don't need to ask him to be in my babies life. He dropped me off at an abortion clinic several times refusing to take me home unless I got it done
Not at all! If he just wants to spread his name he has no right to be around in my mind
you have a right not to and the only way he can change that is a DNA test. If his name isn't on the birth certificate he has no rights until a court ordered DNA test shows he is the father. I do have a question though. Did you go to a sperm bank or what? I'm confused on that sorry :(
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Tired of arguing with BD over baby names. Every time we discuss names he feels like he has the final say so in naming our son....he wants to name him Lion......I hate that name for obvious reasons (Come the hell on dude....LION....seriously?!?!?! 😤) I'm stuck between 2 names Jaydyn or Josiah. I want my son to have a name that he'll be proud to put on a resume or that he won't get denied a job over. But his father and I clash every time his name is brought up. I'm 4 weeks away from my due date an...
yes I'm a single mom and yes my daughter is going to have my last name I refuse to give my daughter the name of a BOY who doesnt want to take care of his responsibilities! ....problem ?
sending you hugs and prayers. please let me know if you need anything or to talk.