So I'm a FTM not due til Oct 23rd. The child's father aka "donor" told me to have an abortion. Obviously I would never do that. He is getting married the same month I'm due. I had to tell his family because now he is denying it's his because him & fiance are having trouble conceiving. Now he claims he wants to be in the baby's life and the baby to have his last name. But he said I can't have his contact info. I'm almost 15 weeks. I've had to block him and his entire family from causing so much drama. I have no intention of giving the baby his last name or putting his name on the birth certificate. I don't care if doesn't care about me but he wanted to kill a baby then denys it. He hasn't even asked me if the baby was fine or anything. Am I wrong for not having him in my child's life.
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@lovebugsmom26, my feelings exactly I have one friend who said she would drive down otherwise I have no one
@dessie0621, that's awful I'm sorry. But the people who are gonna miss out ate the ones that aren't there. I'm sure as soon as you hold and see that baby you're gonna be so happy. Are you allowed to have friends with you.
I'm 36. Due to complications i might get induced next week. All alone in the delivery room. But I've been alone my entire pregNncy. Because of the circumstances my mother stopped talking to me because she heard he was being an asshole
does anyone know if you don't list them on the birth certificate and the dna test is done he still has no rights until we would go to court?
@dessie0621, I am so sorry I couldn't imagine. how far along are you
okay just checking :) but he has no say until its proven he's the dad
thank you girls! I told him that he was going to have to pay for the dna test. I don't trust him nor his family
@gillianamy, no he is the dad I just refer to him as a donor sorry
I'm kind of in your shoes. My donor told me if I can't give him money when he needs it then I don't need to ask him to be in my babies life. He dropped me off at an abortion clinic several times refusing to take me home unless I got it done
Not at all! If he just wants to spread his name he has no right to be around in my mind
you have a right not to and the only way he can change that is a DNA test. If his name isn't on the birth certificate he has no rights until a court ordered DNA test shows he is the father. I do have a question though. Did you go to a sperm bank or what? I'm confused on that sorry :(
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Why Are Many Women Unaware of Their Own Anatomy?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
sending you hugs and prayers. please let me know if you need anything or to talk.