Thank you @jayviensmommy15

Instead of going to the bar that should be a time to relax with you he can drink a bit at home your going through an emotional time being pregnant!! No one is to busy to make time for someone and NO ONE wants to go through a pregnancy alone!!! Keep your head up girl.

It's not like I'm asking him to be up my butt all day I know he needs sleep and has to work and has kids he to take care of which I have been there for over 3 years helping him do. I understand he has priorities. No woman wants to go through a pregnancy alone at least I don't. And I shouldn't feel alone even when he's around. And he always say he's tired which I would understand if he didn't go out to the bar everyday for hours instead of coming home and then sleeps all day wakes up when I cook dinner and then goes back to sleep. So I pretty much take care of his kids, homework, feeding them, all that good stuff, which I don't mind doing and I don't complain about it. So I don't think asking for a little time is too much to ask for. @kimberlyyyy

Uh not to be a bitch but it sounds like his priority is to support his other children, and I believe that's the way it should be. My fiancé works graveyard to support my son & me, and that's just how life goes. I'm not working so he's the breadwinner. A man needs his space. I'm sure he is SUPER stressed out about supporting his kids and the idea of a 4th must be hard for him. Not trying to be a bitch about it, but I think you should figure out how to do the pregnancy thing "on your own" for now. Talk to some friends, go for walks, start making crafts, something that you can do on your own while your man is asleep or with the kids. Now this will come off really bitchy, but I don't understand how someone can be in a relationship with a parent of multiple children and still expect attention. You'll see your child is your first priority for love & attention. Sorry, I'm rambling, hopefully he will be able to be there for you emotionally as you get closer to having his kiddo. Good luck.