I can't sleep. I'm laying here crying because I can't figure out what's going on with my fiancée. We…
I can't sleep. I'm laying here crying because I can't figure out what's going on with my fiancée. We have never had a fight. Ever. We tell each other everything. He's my best friend. But the last couple days I feel like I'm being pushed away. Yesterday he was really quiet. And then today we had our normal doctors appointment. He texted me good morning before he left for work then I didn't hear from him all day tell her got off. Witch he almost always texts me. Then we get to the appointment and we had almost gotten in a wreck on the way there and I was shaking. He was talking perfectly fine tell we got in the room and then he got really quiet. Usually he stands next to me hugging me and kissing me and talking. He went and sat in one of the chairs and hardly said anything. And all day he hasn't said much. He said he was in a bad mood. And I think it had something to do with me. I'm just not sure what's going on. And we sign the lease to our apartment together in a week and I feel like he's backing out. And I'm so scared. 😭
lilithnight·
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is thia your guy's first baby?
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
@lilithnight, It's his first. My second.
lilithnight·
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he might just be getting first time jitters then. i cant say from experience but in a lot of the parent message boreds it is talked about. maybe just try and talk to him?
Amanda·
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my hubby gets like this now. I still worry but he says it's stress related. This is his first too
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
@lilithnight, @bbyenolan22 He just says he's tired or in a bad mood. And he has never been this way tell the last like week. He had been super happy because he has gotten a new job and we are moving in together. I kinda think it has to do with him moving out of the apartment him and his Brother share. He feels like he has to take care of him. And now he's not going to be with him. And he's going to be a Dad in like a month and a half and I think he's scared that maybe he's not ready. I just wish he would talk to me about it. I feel like he's scared if he says he's not ready that I'll leave. I don't wanna be pushing him to do something he doesn't want. I just know we have plans and this is part of it. He's literally the only person outside my family that I talk to every single day and when we don't talk though the day I'm completely lost because it's been us talking constantly since we met.
Brittany Sherman·
Men Just Get Overwhelmed With Things Like This . We As Women Can Handle It All But Just Put Yourself In His Shoes Your Pregnant Baby Is Almost Here & Not Only Does He Have 2 Provide 4 Himself He Is Responsible For You & The Baby . Try A Candlelight Dinner Maybe A Date Do What You Can 2 Ease The Pressure Watch Movies Do Whatever You Can It Always Works W Me & My Bf
Brittany Sherman·
Let Him Know Even Though His Brother Will Be On His Own Tell Him That You Can Set Aside A Date Every Week For You Guys 2 Get Together or For Them 2 Get Together At The House . See What They Like 2 Do
Brittany Sherman·
Don't Force Anything He'll Come Around Trust Me Men Handle Emotions Differently Than Women But They Always End Up Coming Around
lilithnight·
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that sounds like a lot of changes happening pretty fast. not that its a bad thing. I could just see how he is stressed. i agree with the other ladies. set some time aside for you and him and him and his brother.
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
@mommmyof0627, Last night I made dinner and that helped a little. He seems more talkative today. And his Brother will be two hours away. I think he wants his Brother to live with us but with a 2 bedroom apartment and 2 kids we can't afford it and we don't have the room. I think he's scared of all the changes. I've been trying to make it easier by handling most of the apartment stuff but we move a week from tomorrow and we sign the lease a week from yesterday so it's kinda crunch time and I feel awful because he's working everyday during all this except the day we move.
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
@mommyof10627, @likithnight
Jackie Desirae Hensley·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
@lilithnight,
Brittany Sherman·
Yeah Men Don't Handle Things The Way We Do .Try Doing Little Things For Him It Always Works @jackiemommyof2