This is my second time being pregnant, my baby's father the first time left me when I told him & I ended up having a miscarriage at 5 weeks & 5 days. I am now pregnant a year & a half later by another guy who's doing the same thing, I'm 8 weeks pregnant today actually! I've tried everything to contact him & see if he will go with me to one of my appointments or help me with something but I get nothing & I just found out he's seeing another girl, I want to keep looking for him but don't know if I should... Any advice on what I should do? :(
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He will just fall back and worry about the baby when he see your focusing on something else he'll come around @bbtoothrowedsmommy
I know I know, I just hope he comes around soon... I miss him so much. @quita08
I understand because I love mines with all my heart but if you want a chance of having the baby you need to cut back of the stressing @bbtoothrowedsmommy
Don't stress yourself your in a very critical stage right so try to reduce your stress
yup so just move on :) you'll find someone better
@joana, that's how I lost my first child, to stress. I'm not doing that again! @anqiee323 YESSSSSSSS SO TRUE
@prego_again, correct they grow up its our responsibility since they walked out on us. @bbtoothrowedsmommy just stay strong nd if u feel said speak up cuz depression nd bein pregnant cn hurt u nd ur baby a lot trust...the first couple of weekss i cried at night thinkin how am i gunna do this but we have to dry our tears move on nd hope for the best
Exactly! My baby's father is such an alcoholic it's so ridiculous & I will not let him keep the baby EVER! @prego_again
we have a choice I see moms leaving their kids with the dads or there parents all the time. some woman and men just grow up and make the right choose
Im so sorry that happened to you but I'm happy you overcame that! @prego_again @joana yes we can't walk out like they did, we don't have a choice.
it happens every day. even tho my bf is the only father my daughter has ever known he did not father her... her sd left told me I was trash and tried to kill her (he punched me in the stomach). some men just can't grow up
exactly it is nasty but what cn we do i just pray to god to give me the strength nd ability to raiss my daughter nd show her the good path. @bbtoothrowedsmommy it is scary but we have no choice we cnt backdown nd put ourselves down
I just hope something changes because doing it on my own is such a scary thought, I hope the best for y'all also! @alainalovesmommy @joana @prego_again yeah I'm just gonna stop trying to look for him, it's just so disgusting how someone can do that to a child.
girl pray nd pray wont get him back...we r all scared i am..am almost due nd have done this alone we havd to keel forward cuz now its a little baby u have to take care of. yea it sucka seeing others happy but god knows y this happens. keep ur head up nd ur not alone we r here of anything. but keep ur head high nd take care of ur baby @bbtoothrowedsmommy
I left my baby's father because he picked drinking and friends over me , he has been ignoring me for the last 3 months almost comes out of nowhere asking me all kinds of questions about overnight and days he can have her . then has the nerve to tell me he no longer wants the family life with me , I don't see how guys can change their minds quick but for the sake of you and your baby just forget him right now let him think you don't need him
I'm sorry that's bs. U really don't need him or his stress. there is someone out there who's worth ur time... don't let him bother u or bring u down
@prego_again, he says I'm gonna regret it if I even threaten him with child support, that he's gonna go back to our home country before I can even try.
if he's not interested let him go when the baby gets here shame him with a dna and some child support. pregnancy is all about u honey. enjoy it and don't pay any mind to some loser who's not worth u or ur little miracles time
I just keep hoping & praying every night that maybe he'll come home. 😔
Ugh. I just feel so bad because it's not fair that I see couples pregnant & they live together & they're happy & he's just out partying & drinking, like why? Man up. You knew what you were doing. Don't leave me by myself be as you're scared, or whatever your excuse is, I need you!
worry about you and the baby , no man is worth it . I know I can't say much because I'm going through somethings but things will be better if you just drop him
girl word of advice stop...same here well this is my first pregnancy nd he did the same thing. i stopped nd trust its the best thing u could do...worry about urself nd ur baby later in life when he sees how good u raised the baby hes gunna beg
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
I hope so. :/ right now he forgets we exist. @quita08