Update: tried contacting the father and even some of my friends tried. He hasn't texted or messaged…

or maybe he doesn't know how to handle the situation.

He had a part in it too. Unlike him though, I'm going through it, I'm pregnant, he gets to sit back and laugh about it. The least he could say is "I understand" or just sent an "okay" not completely ignore every effort.

I understand how you feel, he did have a part in it like you said but again maybe he doesn't know how to handle it, he could be thinking about it, you never know. try not to think negative so you don't stress yourself and the baby.

I've had nothing but drama with him so it's hard but thank you..... I'll try to be positive, hopefully he will come around