So I get asked why I don't tell the father I'm pregnant. Well it's complicated but I got pregnant…

I personally couldn't keep it from the father. even if we didn't get along whatsoever even if I thought the kid was better off with out knowing him. it's his child too you know... I would just call him if you don't want to talk in person and if he pulls that shit saying it's not mine or needs a dna test so be it. at least you told him. Don't stress over it . It will be the happiest time in your life very soon. and you will make it work no matter if he is in the picture or not!

Yea I'm up for a DNA test and everything, I'm more worried because we are both in high school (seniors) and I don't want him dumping his girlfriend over this. He already cheated on her and it's not okay for me to all of a sudden jump up and tell him.

That was just my input. what I would do. You are going to go with your gut and at this time if that's what you feel not to tell him just yet then wait. you are the one going threw this. You might just need some time and he will have to just accept it sooner or later. But I don't recommend not telling him for too long. Just take it one day at a time for now.

I personally think if you're just trying to keep him from dumping his girlfriend and that is the only reason you aren't telling him, you need to send him a text or call him. He deserves to know, and if he cheated on her he shouldn't be with her anyways.. You shouldn't keep a secret like this from him, who knows? Maybe having a child is what he wants. :)

U might regret later if u dont tell him. But really its ur choice.

Thanks guys, thanks for all the advice. I want him to know but at the same time..... Idk I know I'll have to tell him eventually.

Why spare his feelings or try to save his relationship you guys obviously don't care about his relationship when you engaged in cheating. Don't "cheat" the dad out of taking responsibility for his child n being a part of his life you guys are young and made a mistake you can get past that but he may not get past your deceit of not telling him which could Mk co parenting in the future difficult. I had my first at 18 fresh out of high school and a lot of things her dad did when we were young I held on to for a long time and it made communication with us hard I mean it didn't help he was a deadbeat but maybe if I didn't harbor so much resentment when I was young I could have been the bigger person early on and tried harder to get along with him maybe it would have helped maybe not . U don't want to live with those type of regrets because it impacts the child not just u. Good Luck! 😊

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