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Ashley

I'm afraid I'm unable to have children.. My boyfriend and I are trying, I just have a terrible gut instinct. :(

I'm afraid I'm unable to have children.. My boyfriend and I are trying, I just have a terrible gut instinct. :(

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cjsmommy10

Keisha

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I know what you're going through trust me and thank you.

astroobabyy

Ashley

Congrats my dear! And I am trying to be patient but it's a little difficult because my boyfriend is just so impatient and wants children right away and it's stressful. :/ @peanutsmommy1203

cjsmommy10

Keisha

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Just watch it and make sure you are keeping track. I did it the 9 th and was pregnant by the 12. So just make sure your timing it and it will happen love just be patient

astroobabyy

Ashley

My periods have always been irregular, and I just recently started tracking my ovulation. @peanutsmommy1203

cjsmommy10

Keisha

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I thought that too and when we stopped trying and really just were randomly having sex I got pregnant. And also do you track periods and ovulation???

aprilcgutkopf

April

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@astroobabyy,

aprilcgutkopf

April

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Thanks! Np!

astroobabyy

Ashley

Congrats! and okay thank you:) @aprilcgutkopf

aprilcgutkopf

April

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Don't stress about it! Best advise I can give you is that when you don't stress it will happen! Go to the doctor and ask for them to test you and tell you if you will be able to get pregnant. I was going to do that bc I was trying for 8 almost 9 months and didn't get pregnant so then when I went to get tested they wanted me to wait a full year then they would test me. I got pregnant the week after I went to see. It's kind of funny!

astroobabyy

Ashley

Okay, thank you guys so much!

kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (20 нед.)

I had luck with Glow. Check out the app and see if it helps. Input your periods && it will calculate when you ovulate. If you're serious on trying to conceive you can take ovulation tests and check your body Basel temperature & track your cervical mucus and see if that helps.

mommytobe33

mommytobe33

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

there's an app you can download it will tell you when you conceive and those are the days you try

astroobabyy

Ashley

On the days I conceive? How do I do that? @mommytobe33

mommytobe33

mommytobe33

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

find out on the days you conceive and go from there

astroobabyy

Ashley

I'm sorry to hear that @kimberlyyyy .. Congrats though. Yeah 2 months isn't long, he's just been trying like crazy, he says he wants nothing more than a child and it's kinda stressing me out, because it's not happening right away and I don't want him to give up.

kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (20 нед.)

Yeah birth control can stick in your system for awhile. Also, 2 months isn't really enough time to try. I've had the best luck not trying...as annoying as that sounds. When I tried I ended up miscarrying. Three months later with no trying I ended up getting pregnant again.

astroobabyy

Ashley

That's what I'm hoping, and yeah I know! I've just had feelings for years that I'll never be able to become a mother.. :( Thank you though! :)

amberlee1992

Amber

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That's not very long at all and it is very possible that it's still in your system! Wish you guys the best of luck 😊

astroobabyy

Ashley

Thank you so much! :)

hayleybug

Hayley

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It'll happen in time. It's always the time that you're not trying that you get pregnant lol good luck to you both!

astroobabyy

Ashley

It's just stressful. My boyfriend is so upset that it hasn't happened yet, we've only been trying for a month or two now, I was also on the depo shot and I'm just hoping the reason it's taking so long is because all the chemicals aren't out of my system yet. Thanks for sharing with me though @amberlee1992 and @hayleybug :)

amberlee1992

Amber

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I felt the same way! Gave up on trying and a few months later got pregnant. We tried for years. Just stay positive!

hayleybug

Hayley

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When you're meant to have a baby it'll happen. I was in a relationship for 3 years and engaged for one. We tried but never were able to get pregnant. Come to find out on our 1 year engagement anniversary he was cheating on me and the married her 2 months later (he only knew her 2 months) but I've been with the guy I'm with now for a short time and the first time we had sex I ended up pregnant. When the time is right you'll get your little blessing

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