my fiance and i are having our first baby and ive had a lot of anxiety. i know he will be a good daddy in the sence he will love her and take care of her but i feel like this is too soon. I pushed him out from under his moms wing( she controlled and did everything for him and was kinda abusive) and i feel hes a bit immature and doesnt have his priorities. i still love him i know its not his fault and im hoping he will grow. hes already come a long way but i also have depression and etc. and its really hard not being on medication and dealing with everything. This causes a lot of arguments. am i wrong for having these thoughts and should i just try to push them aside?
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Give Him Time He'll Come Around & NO ARGUMENTS My Pastor Said Instead of Arguing Find The Time 2 Talk Motivate Eachother Ask Is It A Good Time 2 Talk ? IF YOUR DEPRESSED PRAY TALK 2 GOD HE WILL HANDLE IT LEAVE IT IN HIS HANDS
you could talk to your doctor about your depression. and s for your boyfriend does he have a job? do y'all live together? are y'all still in school?
he has a job but its at a bar and he doesnt make that much and he has debt. he learn3d from his mom to always want. and when i ask him if thats a good idea thats usually what starts the arguments. were both in college and thats all i could handle. added on ive have serious back problems for 3 years and i dont have insurance to do anything about it. i plan on taking a break and getting a job. i really wosh he would go active duty but his mom convinced him not to until he had enough school hours to be an oficee. but we could really use the money