my fiance and i are having our first baby and ive had a lot of anxiety. i know he will be a good daddy in the sence he will love her and take care of her but i feel like this is too soon. I pushed him out from under his moms wing( she controlled and did everything for him and was kinda abusive) and i feel hes a bit immature and doesnt have his priorities. i still love him i know its not his fault and im hoping he will grow. hes already come a long way but i also have depression and etc. and its really hard not being on medication and dealing with everything. This causes a lot of arguments. am i wrong for having these thoughts and should i just try to push them aside?