I love how people are thinking I'm going to be a horrible parent because I got a tattoo while being pregnant... for your…

I have a 3yr old healthy boy i got a tattoo on my wrist when i was 9weeks pregnant cant nobody pass judgement on me for doing that , theres females out there having unprotected sex while pregnant with different men and probly catching stds , why is everybody worried about everybody elses life and baby nd not worry about theres smh

okay but she admitted she knew she wasn't suppose to do it, and why are you going to act like people are going to be nice about it, we are worried about the baby

I don't think its the fact that you got a tattoo its the statement you made saying you pretty much didn't care what the baby went threw because you were getting in abortion anyways then said you only kept it because you you couldn't afford the abortion. Which still makes you look horrible because babies cost waaaaaay more than an abortion.

Where did you get the tattoo if I may ask. My family almost ripped my throat for mentioning a tattoo. So I've decided to wait to get one until my baby is born.

@brightsunsett, actually it is true I was gonna get one for my MIL that passed and the dude said they won't tattoo a pregnant women cause they have a higher chance of infection everything u said is true as well

Well again, if that's what she wanted to do she can do whatever. And she says she regrets even thinking about getting an abortion cause her baby is the best thing that has happened to her. @mommy_31115 I just don't want anyone feeling judged because this is judge free zone

@brightsunsett, but yet she tasked about boot being able to afford her abortion that she wanted but she can pay for damn tattoo, kids aren't cheap

Yeah I wouldn't have guessed it was okay to do but I get it now. I got mine awhile ago so I guess I'll just wait for another!

Age is nothing but a number sweetheart. It might not have been the smartest decision but at least nothing happened girl! @hazelannmarie27 you are doing all this for you and your baby and that's all that matters!

Thank you and the tattoo is fine completely healed and I know they do its just rude to think people think I won't be a great mom...like they have np idea that all my money from my checks for the past 5 months have gone to all her stuff she will need and the house were renting..and I'm only 18!

It literally just has a longer healing process that's all.

No. That's not true @wyattsmommy91 it's causes stress on the baby, and your baby is using your white blood cells to grow, and if you don't know your white blood cells help you heal, so really the only thing that happens is that your tattoo will take longer to heal and if you don't take care of it yeah it could get infected but that's not the reason it's not recommended. It's just because it takes forever to heal. But girl, nothing's wrong with the baby and make sure you keep the tattoo clean and nothing should happen. you just have to remember everyone has opinions about things, and everyone will express their opinions especially on social media. @Danamarie @hazelannmarie27 I have no doubt that you will be a great mother!

Oh - I thought it had something to do with the needles and hepatitis but wasn't sure. I've only gotten one but isn't it pretty hard for them to get infected? People always have to pass judgment I suppose :(.

which it didn't everything is fine but people just want to be rude and call me a selfish mom ..

it can get infected easier @danamarie

What's the issue with getting tattoos while pregnant? Just curious