ok y'all I need help so I'm trying to leave my husband I'm tired of the emotional mental and…

Have you gone to talk to social services I'm sure they will help!

there are shelters for women and children or you could put him in jail for the abuse and still have a place to stay

no but I will tomorrow I'm gonna be working on it while he's at work because he's so convinced I'm not gonna leave he basically says I'm stuck

I'm probably gonna go to a shelter tomorrow I hate to but I can't stay here and I don't wanna put him in jail because of his job I know I shouldn't care but when I file for divorce I need him to be working so I can put him in child support

Get a restraining order so you can stay but he cannot come near you.

I will be doing that as well but I want to figure out how to get out of here first

Look up local domestic violence resources. There is help, you just have to find the right resources. Don't feel hopeless. You can and will make it. You're making the best decision for yourself and your children. There are people to help you. I pray your situation improves rapidly. God bless you.

thank you @queeneden