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🚨🚨Vent ALERT🚨🚨 So, last night I went to a free concert series they have in my town. I went with my…

🚨🚨Vent ALERT🚨🚨

So, last night I went to a free concert series they have in my town. I went with my parents and my little sister because I have no friends. So we go. I went to see Shakey Graves, I was supposed to see him the past fall but my ex and I broke up the day before and it was messy.

I show up with my family to this free concert event and within twenty minutes of sitting there my mom grabs my attention and keeps my attention saying, "just keep looking this way". Now I'm not one to hide from the past, but I have requested absolutely NO contact from my baby's father because of what he did to me (he cheated on me the entire time we were together--1 year, verbally and emotionally abused me when I told him I was pregnant with his child, and countless times has violated the boundaries we agreed on back in January, oh he also insisted I get an abortion and now he wants to act all interested in the child he helped make). I felt extremely uncomfortable being at that concert even with my family there to support me.

I hate living in the same city as my baby's father, he finds a way to steal all the happiness from me just by being in the same vicinity.

Note: I'm not asking for your opinions. My son is 100% better off without his father. My son does not deserve a father that will only be around when it's most convenient for him to be, my son will not have to deal with the heartbreak of holding a lesser importance in his fathers life (music comes first with my sons father, then it's drugs, then it's alcohol, then it's family). So if you've got something to say about my keeping my son away from his father keep it to yourself. I know I'm making the best decision for my son.

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spudssmommie

LaJuan✌🏾️✊🏾🌻

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Girl you do not have to explain yourself. You know what's best for your child. I'm glad your family was there to support you.

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jaspersmama

Jade

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@jellybeansmommie, thanks. They really have been the most incredible since I moved back home and found out I'm pregnant. My mom is super stoked for her grandsons arrival. :) my little sister (14) is sooo excited to be an aunt :)

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spudssmommie

LaJuan✌🏾️✊🏾🌻

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Omg she's gonna love it! My brother is 13 abd he thinks he's the Gabe whisperer 😂😂

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missing11user

missing11user

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you know whats best for your baby. noone else does. do what you gotta do mama!

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jaspersmama

Jade

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Thanks @may24th

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smiley_baby92

Sadia Ali

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I feel like I'm dealing with something similar but not quite. I'm thinking about raising my child only and give him/girl my last name. And not deal with my baby daddy. Not sure if I'm choosing the right decision but I feel as though it is best for me right now. . Just stay strong sweetie.

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jaspersmama

Jade

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@smiley_baby92 I questioned my reasoning a lot at first. Then I found out that if been cheated on, was used as the other woman for an entire year and there were NO signs that he was cheating. Now as I am 32+5 days I'm confident that I'm making the best decision for my son. He deserves so much better. :) praying for you and your little one.

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smiley_baby92

Sadia Ali

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Praying for you as well 🙏

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