I have so much respect for pregnant people now that I'm one as I thought that being pregnant was easy but now that I've been/ am through it. I understand that being pregnant is really difficult especially if you don't have a partner like me or someone to support you. Yeah I've had my family but the guy that got me pregnant isn't interested and I've tried to involve him but he's not interested at all and doesn't wanna be a dad which I think is really sad as he has missed so much and I love my baby already and she's not here yet :) idk what to do should I try to involve him more or just leave it as I don't wanna force him to do stuff but I want my baby girl to know I really tried if u have some advice for me leave a comment btw I was really sick and had to go to hospital so I messaged him so he would know and he just ignores my messages:(
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He left me 19 weeks pregnant because 'he didn't want his family to talk about him' people like that dont deserve to be a dad now I'm 31 weeks tomorrow and couldn't be happier :)
@shelby, well mines willnae even tell his family 😑 guys shouldn't have unprotected sex if they can't be responsible for what happened after and you and your baby are better off with him
The father of my baby's exactly the same he even told his family I had an abortion 😑 my little boy will be loved by the people around him when he arrives :)
Neither of my parents wanted to be parents!! At least your little one has you. If he does not want to be a father dont force him. He will regret it! Im sure you will be a great mummy☺☺☺
I hope so cause I don't have a relationship with my dad anymore as he was only interested in my mum and I hope my daughter could maybe be different but if he doesn't it's ok cause I know I'll love her more then he ever could and I hope your baby's dad realises he's making a mistake @avasmummy14 :) but if he doesn't its him that's missing out
When she is born I bet he will bother but you just stand your ground! He's not been there for you or her, she only needs her mummy, my baby's dad doesn't want to be involved because I'm having a daughter when it's another son he wanted which knocks me sick @sarahlou
@avasmummy14, thanks I was thinking that too cause I don't see him changing and I don't need him :)
Not worth the time of day if he doesn't want to be involved, if he doesn't wanna be a dad and be involved in a pregnancy then he should put a condom on, your little girl only need people that are about her when she's born and even now when she is growing inside you...be proud to be a single mum... Your the mum and dad so that's double the love and cuddles @sarahlou
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
I'm glad your happy as my baby dad wouldn't come see me to talk about stuff and just ignores any attempts I make to talk but I've stop now cause my baby deserves better and so do I :) I've only got 3 weeks and 4 days left and I can't wait til I hold my baby