wow... okay so I just went through my boyfriends phone cause I've suspicion that he's cheating and of course he's…

@emilyyy96___, I know I'm way late but the next time he says he wants a boy more and all that stupid bs and make a u feel bad for having a blessed little girl in your tummy just remind him that scientificly its his fault y'all don't have a boy cause its the male sperm that decied

what the gender is... its no where near your fault you grow and give life to the baby but the sperm decides if its going to be an x,y which is boy,girl....

@dovejazz, it's okay :/

Omg girl, that's Sooo not fair and hurtful to hear even to me 😔 Awhh sorry I donno what to say but I would not be able to handle that.

@kay80, exactly.... I hope so too. thanks hun ♡

@dovejazz, he was super involved in my pregnancy, wanted to go to every appointment, talk to the baby and buy the baby things.... then we found out we were having another girl, he stopped talking about it, won't touch My tummy... the photographer was like "uhmm it's not going to bite you, just rest your hands on her bump" and he seemed disgusted, he also has not been to a dr appointment since and he's only taking the day she's born off from work so I'll be doing it myself in the hospital and once I get out I'll be taking care of my toddler as well by myself. I'm still upset he said it. I do make excuses for him though.

@emilyyy96___, do u feel like u r stuck with him? What ever road u choose doesnt feel right. U feel unsure and insecure? Its easier said than done to just leave him and move on with ur life. Where u gonna live? Whos gonna financially help u out? I'm sure theres milloins of questions going through ur mind right now. U need to do what u think is right for u and ur kids right now. Trust me I feel u!!! Sometimes as moms we do things for our childrens sakes. We stay in unhealthy relationships so our kids dont have to suffer. I hope u find a way that makes you happy, with or without your boyfriend. Stay strong, u are in my thoughts💕

Awh I understand that but it's hurtful to say that and think that and for you as a mom to hear that I can imagine your heart was broken in pieces😥😢 hopefully he didn't REALLY mean that tho! I give him the benefit of the doubt. So he was disappointed when u guys found out ur having another girl?

@juliagail09, my boyfriend is super into sports so he wants a son to play football and baseball with and such. @dovejazz it's okay hun. hopefully he'll grow up soon.

Omg that's so terrible to say, let alone think that OMG 😞 I wonder what he will have to say for himself. U can't cover that up. Wtf! M sorry

gosh im sorry. i wish i could help you. your boyfriend should be happy no matter the gender of your children. why does he want a little boy so he can treat him like crap too? ugh 😡😡😡😡😡😡 guys fn suck. i hate them. lol

@juliagail09, I completely agree.... I've tried to talk to my mom about it, but as much as she loves me she says she can't go back on her word (which I understand) I talked to alex and he didn't even deny anything... he said it does suck having 2 girls cause all he wants is a boy and I got in the shower and had a bad mental breakdown. I told him I feel like he doesn't care, he says he loves me and both the girls but he would be happier with a boy....

have you maybe talked to your mom and told her whats going on? i doubt she wants her daughter unhappy or with someone who treats you so badly. i know u ts hatd when you live someone. i know from experience but i like you. and i think you deserve so much better and it upsets me that he treats you this way. i feel like you deserve so much better. i wish you could talk to your mom and she would understand whats going on and let you and your girls stay but kick his ass to the curb. my boyfriends an asshole for real but your man just seems like a flat out disrespectful rude ass dude. (hopefully) you dont block me for this. it just upsets me. im sorry. take it from someone who knows you do not want to be unhappy for the rest of your life by being with someone who could care less about you.

@firstbaby_girl, no. I have no other family

I'm so sorry mama. there's no where else you can go?

what an asshole I say you leave his ass! he don't appreciate you or your babygirl's

Sounds like he doesn't appreciate you or make it obvious that he does... When he wakes up try talking calmly to him maybe even offer couples counseling because he should be able to come to you and talk to you about these things then to a coworker and most men never help with babies my husband never changes a diaper or fed I pretty much do everything in my home you never know sometime in the future maybe you guys will have a boy but sit down let him know how hurt you are and how you feel if he can't understand anything you deserve someone a lot better sometimes relationships get tough maybe this is just a hard time for you both he has to come with terms of accepting the beautiful family he has I'm sure once baby here things will change praying hoping for the best for you girl! Chin up stay strong!

@ab, not yet... he's still sleeping. I couldn't sleep last night and only got about 2 hours cause I can't stop crying. I had no idea he felt like this....

he always jokes saying how happy he would be if this baby came out a boy... but now I'm thinking it's not a joke. after my first daughter was born he didn't spend any time with her, change diapers, or hold her because she "wasn't a boy and it was hard to bond with her". my mom is kicking us out of her house cause she needs the room so we're waiting for our apartment to get done (they're installing new carpet) and we're supposed to be moving within the month. I'm just so upset with everything going on lately. and last night I made him a cake and I ate a small piece of the corner and he's like "if this cake was for me, then why did you eat it?" I was just like uhmmm... cause I wanted a piece then he tried to say he didn't want it anymore. and he's all "you said you were making me cake balls, I didn't want cake" like really? he doesn't understand how hard it is to chase a 16 month old around the house while almost 8 months pregnant, let alone while cooking.... I do everything for him... so this morning I started doing laundry and I'm finishing packing. I'm gonna pack all my shit and the girl's stuff. he can do his laundry himself from now on since I apparently do nothing but sit on my ass all day (according to him). My heart is heavy... I don't know what to do anymore... @babyhuff2015 @firstbaby_girl @junebaby @brittanybear00 @kay80 @ms.kizzah @mommavee

Omg Hun keep ya head up

his lost ... not urs. he has a immature way of thinking!

Oh I sorry sweetie. Thats awful of him to say that

I'm sorry momma. I'd be leaving.

Wow... Did you confront him?

oh that's terrible. I'm so sorry:(

what a jerk. mama you need to get out of there . you need someone that loves you for you and your baby girls.

You need to leave him!!! 😕😕😕