is it wrong of me to want to make my own mistakes with my child learn things on my own yes getting advice is nice but being told how and what to do with my child makes me so mad it's to the point where I don't want to see my family or my boyfriend's family I want to be able to learn things on my own have my mistakes that I'll later laugh about there is now way I could or would ever put my baby at harm everyone says I'm a great mother but they sit there and point out everything that I do differently this is my child I carried him for 9 months I went thru the 23 hours of labor I did that not them why is it so hard to just leave me and my boyfriend alone