its just like every time I get upset he's like quit getting so upset all the time which just makes me cry more and feel stupid about being upset like his kid sleeps in the bed with us I watch him all day and he wouldnt even leave this stupid toybox at his moms so we have a place to put a crib when his kid has plenty of toys he's like oh we will just get her a packnplay

I would seriously express my concern to him . Tell him that leaving the baby out makes you feel bad and sad . If he doesn't understand then you may want to reevaluate your relationship with him .