Preggie is supposed to be a positive, happy, and uplifting way for us mommies to listen and share with other mommies.…

well this is not a positive post either

I said something about me not wanting my child .. So do you have a problem! Cause bitch I don't know you from a room full of shit !! I can say what the fuck I feel . You don't mutha fucking know me or what the fuck I deal with on daily ,

It sure isn't negative.. It's being real. @babygirl10-11

this post was obviously about the two moms struggling with depression and this post is attacking them

If the shoe fits...... And I'm not the one with the problem. The same way u can post what u want, I can post what I want. Why are u getting so offensive? Please don't come to me like that. I've said/did nothing to you. A guilty conscience will hurt. Enjoy your day mama @tonorreya

This is a place for any and everyone to post how they feel and if today that's how they feel then that's how they feel and those that wish to encourage and turn the negative into a positive will do so those that don't like and don't agree should keep scrolling or block the person not post a negative or maybe more so judge mental post in regards to it . We don't know each others struggle and opinions vary. I don't totally disagree with your pint of view but the delivery is Wack

instead of tearing ppl down or judging them on how they feel or situation, uplift them! we r not in their shoes or know what they r going through.

I think she has the right to post as we are her to help other mommies and mommies-to-be's. if you don't like what she post then simply blacklist her. Its something she isbstrugglingnwithbamd obviously needs help and if another mommy went through this same thing they could help her.

Post partum depression isn't an easy thing to deal with, somedays I say things I definitely don't mean. But I'd never hurt my child or do anything I'd ever regret. I love my son with all of my heart, it's just hard being a single mom, especially when my son is colicky and cries all day and night. You don't know what other moms go through.

And that's fine too @ginag918 but like you said this is a place for people to post how they feel and obviously this is how I feel. I said nothing negative or judgmental. The truth hurts that's all. I'm 100% real. You gotta own up to stuff. 2 people laid down knowing that there were consequences behind every action. And if a baby is made do what u got to do. If u choose abortion then so be it. But if you choose to keep it don't keep it and not want it. That makes no sense.

But I understand a lot of stuff that's posted is possibly for attention. I wasn't throwing shade to nobody. So yall can take it how you take it. All opinions are welcome.

well to me it is true what @babymercado said..like if you feel that you dont want the baby then give the baby to someone that is welling to take care of it instead of doing something drastic to another life.but i guess it could of been said better but we are all on here to share are feelings whether you like or dislike someone said.i understand that mommies are getting depressed and are seeking help on here so we have to help them.i feel if there brave enough to share what there going through on here then i really dont believe they would do anything to hurt there baby at all.there just saying how they feel at the moment and is looking for positive help to get through the thoughts

You do know that depression and post partum depression is very real and a mental issue so the same logic you or I may approach such issues is not that same that someone suffering with these mental issues will. And I agree there may be some people that post some things for attention but that goes on with any social media outlet. You are entitled to post your opinion just as they are and we are entitled to reply and disagree and agree to disagree.

Like I said this post isn't negative. Some of yall are making it negative. That's what yall do I guess. Yet yall talking bout helping. If that's the case why waste time tryna say I'm wrong. Use that same energy to "help" her. But what yall don't realize is that I never directed this to her. She felt guilty obviously and commented up here talking reckless. She's wrong for that. Not me. Don't cover up the fact that some people "don't want" their kids. That's the main issue, not me being real and saying what some of yall are scared to say. I wasn't rude nor disrespectful. I'm just honest. Take it or leave it. The same way yall telling me I could've blocked her or simply kept scrolling is the same way yall could've blocked me or kept scrolling past this post. @valerie_jean @nessa48 @iloveni0820

@tonorreya, @babygirl10-11 @babymercado @ginag918 @nessa48 @iloveni0820 @valerie_jean @kryssyn preggie is the place to be yourself and be real. Sometimes you feel positive and unfortunately sometimes you don't. Let's not judge that a negative post is only attention grabbing. Many women feel serious depression before and after having a baby. If you want to comment and offer support, that's wonderful. You don't have to and you can easily scroll to the next post or block that mom. Before this gets heated, let's move on.

but she still has every right to post what she did and any other mommy who posted "negative" things. in not saying you were being negative but you certainly are helping by posting this. I feel no need to blacklist you but you really should take others feelings onto consideration especially when she's in a bad space

aren't helping**

the issue here is that it was negative the way u came off. im not scared to say anything, but im also not going to bash someone who isnt mentally stable by making a comment n having them feel even worst about what they r going through.

Why did I get tagged? I wasn't judging ... Only sticking up for others and saying post partum depression isn't an easy thing to deal with 😑

I would understand if she did suffer from depression. But you don't know that she does and I don't either. I don't know that girl nor did I direct anything to her. I understand what you're saying but we can't assume every one has a mental issue. You guys act like I directed to her when I didn't. I did see her post along with like 2 other posts like that which is why I decided to share my feelings about it which is completely ok. No one got hurt here. I could understand if I went and posted rudely all up under this girls post and any other girls post but I didn't @ginag918

@valerie_jean, we always tag everyone in the conversation.

@nessa48, @iloveni0820 @babymercado let's stop now or we will have start banning moms for 24 hours.

I'm not acting like anything lol just disregard my comment. I was just saying in general. But ohhh okay lol sorry preggie

lol @preggie_usa

Once again. You guys made it negative. I never directed this to her. She commented first cursing and carrying on. But yall overlooked that I guess. That's when yall decided to make it about her. All of you need to read the original post again. I don't know that girl. Didn't make the post out to her. Nor did I comment on her post. This is my own post that you guys just turned into something negative all because I'm being real and saying how I feel. The truth hurts and I will not apologize for that. I will leave it at that. Have a good afternoon all of you @preggie_usa @valerie_jean @nessa48 @iloveni0820 @kryssyn

I do nothing for attention sweetly and I know how babies are mad I had one . You don't know if I was or wasn't I birth control. You making that judgement call . I said how I woke up feeling this morning. Hell tomorrow I may be feeling different. I struggle with depression on a daily and I am not the first women to ever feel this way and guess what I won't be the last one either this is life and someone women live it everyday boo ! They just don't post it . I am sorry everyone can't have a happy pregnancy and I am sorry some of us had some unwanted pregnancies. But y'all really need to grow up because until you live life with depression don't judge

I didn't turn it negative. ans I'm sorry if you feel like that's what I was doing. I was just stating my opinion.

You're right. @babymercado I am not in total disagreement with your position. Just sharing my take on it as you did. I am a person who is known for having an insensitive delivery when speaking/ writing so based on my own personal experience I just felt the delivery could easily be taken negatively but I mean you can't control how ppl receive your info. No love lost here 😊

im really sorry if my post bothered you. i deleted it.

Exactly! And that's why I didn't direct this post to you @tonorreya I don't know your story and you aren't the only one who have said things of that sort. Never said u did it for attention either. I said some people do. You assumed I was talking about you from the jump which is why u popped off and did all that cursing as if I was talking to you. You not the only one who said something like that and your post wasn't the only one I seen like that today. I see ppl saying that all the time on Facebook and everywhere else. You can feel how you feel. Nothing wrong with that. But some people really make babies then decide they don't want them which is crazy to me. If you're not that type of person then that's good. But for people who are like that I feel like they need to grow up and accept responsibility that's all. I don't know you so I wasn't talking to you. You assumed that boo. If you know you not like that or if you depressed today then why get so offensive. I'm not judging. I apologize that yall read it wrong and so accustomed to girls up here talking about each other going back and forth so I guess that's what yall expected this post to be. But it isn't. @tonorreya

May you find peace and happiness. @tonorreya