I am really lonely and depressed. I don't even want my baby at times. I was okay with it just being…

wow it is really unfortunate that you feel so depressed. You should speak with a counselor to get to the source of your depression so that you can make an informed decision on if you want to continue this pregnancy. Everyone's situation is different so no one can tell you what to do. Just weigh the pros & cons so that you dont be regret any decision you make.

@tonorreya, not to be rude but you should have been more careful then by getting birth control or not opening your legs. i just feel bad that the baby in your tummy has to feel unwanted i couldnt imagine.

Bitch worry about yourself. That's life hoe get over it .

I don't want my kid so who gonna beat my ass for it lol

Maybe you can set an appointment at the hospital and they can further assist you.....

Praying for you. You could call an adoption agency sand speak with a counselor about your adoptions regarding adoption. Stay strong and pray!

*options regarding adoption

Have you considered adoption? I'm pro-choice meaning I believe a woman has a right to do with whatever she wants with her body. That being said, think about this, $500 once vs. thousands and thousands spent each year on your child? I'd speak with a counselor or somebody you trust and tell them you feel you'd rather have an abortion or give up for adoption. There's another choice! Do your research. I'm sorry you feel this way 😔 it is hard.

there is always adoption

@nylahmylovely, I am sorry for calling you out your name

Thank you all. I may look into adoption. Sorry I just need a place to vent sometimes but I guess here isn't the right place either

This isn't the right place only because abortion is a very touchy subject 😕 But you can always talk to me about it directly! I don't know if you have an Instagram but mine's @valeriejaydub and you can DM me on there. I've felt how you feel so I know what you're going through.

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Hey. I felt EEXXAACCTTLY How you felt when I got pregnant. I kept it. and my feelings did not change as my pregnancy progressed. I've had my baby and its still really tough although I love him, I can actually picture life without him. Do what's best for u because your gonna have to raise him/ her. You can consider adoption but people act like every child gets adopted. some spend life in.foster care

Nobody should judge you!! You just going thru some emotions!! You should be able to post how you feel on here and not worry about ppl judging you! Nobody don't know what you going thru or been thru!! I just hope you make the right decision mama!! Yes having kids is a struggle but it will only make you stronger and a better person! Never let a man make you feel the way you feel!! Live for you and your kid!! At one point I was thinking about getting an abortion but I thought about it and I couldn't do it!! Here I am 8 months pregnant and can't wait to meet him! His father is a dead beat and haven't helped with me shit but I could care less cause at the end of the day he's going to be good!! Stay strong everything will come together! @tonorreya!! I'm here if you need me!! #neverjudgesomeoneifyoudontknowwhattheygoingthru#

Go for adoption! there are so many family's that would love nothing more in this world then to have a child of their own.. I am a child of adoption. I would be dead now if it wasn't for that!

Thank y'all. For the support. I really do appreciate it All I wanted was somebody to be human and feel what I feel . I live real life and pregnancy isn't all ways flowers and sunshine .

Oh my honey, I will keep you in my prayers and I really do hope ur situation gets better, just remember children are considered gifts from God and you are pretty awesome to be receiving another one even in the current situation, pray honey, pray so much that your hands and knees get tired, trust me it will all work out and when it does it's gonna work out for everyone 😉😘

@tonorreya,

Praying for you . We all go through emotional roller coasters at times . I understand how you feel .

I will pray for you girl! although we May not be going through everything you are going through we are here to help ease your mind in anyway. I hope things get easier for you and just remember this happened for a reason. you are meant tp have this baby for a reason!