@kie123 well having older children definitely does help! even though my son is still a little young, he still offers to help and I give him the easy things to help with. such as, going to get a diaper out of the drawer for me 😊 or making sure his sister doesn't fall over while sitting up, while I go to get something or go to the bathroom. my fiance would probably do the same thing your dad had done. my fiance quit cigarettes 8 months ago, but if he found out we were having twins, he probably would actually light up a cigarette again 😂😂😂 and I wouldn't blame him lmao

😂😂😂 yeah my dad almost passed out at the ultra sound lol he asked to be excused so he can some a cigarette & he doesn't even smoke lol but it wasn't too bad for her because I was 16 going on 17 ,my brother was 12 & my sister was 9 so we were all old enough to help & pretty much do our own thing

@kie123 oh wow lol. bless her! I'm definitely stopping at My third baby. if I got pregnant with twins right now, I'd probably cry because my youngest is still only 8 & 1/2 months old hahhahhaha. and I stay at home with my kids so if I did have twins, I'd be home alone with an almost 5 year old, a one and a half year old and then twins when I would have them 😂 oh lord!

With my mother she first wanted a girl & she had me , then she wanted a boy & she had my brother , then she wanted another girl & had my sister , then she wanted to try to get another boy so that she would have 2 girls & 2 boys but she pushed her luck & end up having twin girls lol