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Jennifer
Jennifer
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Does anyone who's married have this same problem? My husband wants me to stop being friends with guys I have been…

Does anyone who's married have this same problem? My husband wants me to stop being friends with guys I have been friends with for years. He says he trusts me but not them which I believe to be total bullcrap. He wants me to give up friendships with some people I've been friends with for more than 3 years. I think it's wrong and controlling. Anyone got any advice?

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bellamama09

Jacquetta

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)

My fiancé is the exact same way. I think it's a man thing. Just make sure the agreement is mutual

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bellamama09

Jacquetta

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)

I grew up with the people in my town so it's 10 plus years being friends he said it's inappropriate when your married or engaged

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knappmom

knappmom

My husband is exactly the same way. I don't think it's because he's trying to be controlling towards me. His ex had hurt him really bad. She cheated on him with a so called friend. So I think for him it's a natural fear. Since being married almost a year this July, he's calmed down a lot. I think he realizes not all women are the same. It could be a control thing for some guys, but it could he something more. A fear maybe? I know how much my husband loves me and his fear someone else with try and invade our marriage. My job is to reassure him 😊❤️

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mamashane89

Jennifer

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My husband said the same thing. I would never have gotten married if it meant giving up friends who have been in my life so long.

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courtney_boyea

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

my husband did that in the beginning of our relationship and I hate to admit this but he was right about the guys. as far as my girlfriends he never had a problem with them. but they all seemed to fade away after I got married and had a kid.....different stages in life I guess. but I'm not saying what your husband is doing is right nor did I think what my husband was doing was right but in the end I understood And I had to put myself in his shoes to realize where he was coming from.

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mamashane89

Jennifer

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I do understand him but his reasons are why I think it's a bunch if crap. I know he is really insecure and he thinks I'm gonna go running off with one of my friends cuz they are closer to my age than he is

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kimmygarrett85

Kimberly Garrett

Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

I had to do that with all my guy friends 10 years ago. it was for the best.

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yvelove

Yvett leal

I had that problem and to make him happy I did it now I regret it. I don't have a huge number of girls that are friends. So me doing that I lost a lot of really good friends!! Let him know that's like you asking him not to talk to any other woman ever agin because you trust him not them. Lucky for me that was my ex!!

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mamashane89

Jennifer

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I have but he is a natural loner and he doesn't care if he can't talk to women or not. Apparently he doesn't trust my judgment and he says all guys want is to pursue women, married or not. I told him that was total bullshit and that not all men are like that. But he seems to believe he knows they are just because he is a man. I'm starting to believe I married the wrong man......and I hate that I'm thinking that way.

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