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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles·Мама дочки (9 лет)
Trouble bonding with baby: hey guys, i am 16 weeks and 2 days today and I'm finding that at some parts of the day I'm totally head over heels in love with baby and I can't get enough, I'm thrilled and full of emotion, especially if I have an appointment or scan, but then other parts of the day I don't really feel anything... I suppose it's like a numb feeling. I will touch my tummy or something but there is no emotions at all and I sometimes almost forget I'm pregnant...I haven't felt a movement yet which isn't helping I suppose... I feel awful about it and wanted advice on how to bond better with baby at this stage and in the future. I want that love all the time and to feel connected to my little... anybody else feel the same or got any suggestions?
07.04.2015
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles·Мама дочки (9 лет)
@zeld @elisabetesantos @lauralou1991 @babypuddick @weebegs thank you all for your lovely responses xx
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weebegs
i feel the same too, so dont worry, your not alone. im only 13 weeks and i still cant believe im pregnant! im excited to feel the baby kick, i think then it will sink in. dont stress over it, once that little baby is born, im sure ull feel so overwhelmed with love xx
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babypuddick
Rebecca-Ann Horne·Мама дочки (10 лет)
I guarantee as soon as you feel your little one kick for the first time you will have that overwhelming feeling all the time! I felt exactly the same at the beginning, Everytime I went to a scan I was so excited but then other days I just didn't believe I was pregnant! But now I feel my baby move everyday and I play with it by poking where it kicks and it kicks back! Makes me smile!!!!
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lauralou1991
I didn't truly bond and connect until the 20 week scan as I had convinced myself that something would go wrong. then I saw my little boy and that was it! it's different for everyone, some people don't bond until the baby is born, don't pressure yourself x
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kendricksmommy
Elisabete·Мама сына (9 лет)
@lovingourlittles, yup i feel like that too. Sometimes im like 'what have i done ?! my life is over !' but as soon as my baby kicks or i look down at my bump i fall in love all over again! x
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zeld
zeld·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Have faith, it'll come with time. pregnancy is a roller coaster of emotions. it's still early days yet. once you start to feel movement something new will click, then when your partner can feel the movement, that's magical too....step by step you'll get to a point when you'll wonder how you ever doubted your love for this tiny human. Trust me.... this is my 5th time around. (((((hugs)))))
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