I just have a very separated not understanding family so it gets hard

That's understandable idk maybe I'll do a shower for his side of the family so I won't seem like an asshole to them because I KNOW they'll get insulted if i don't, and then a welcoming party for my side of the family I think that'll make everyone happy @steph11 yeah I think that's a good idea

I don't want one either and I'm only doing one for my father's side of the family because I don't like them and they don't like me but are excited. so I was worried if I didn't do one like 2 weeks after she gets here they'll all want to do a welcoming party thing and I don't want them around til she's bigger

lol! @kate_magalina yes there's an upside

It's okay, I'm used to it. & his family is going to be the ones missing out on our little girls life. She has a grandma & grandpa that already spoil her too much. A great grandma that is excited to meet her. 2 uncles that love her already & are ready to be first time uncles. (: And a mommy and daddy who love her more than anything else in the world! 😊 oh and I can't forget her body guards (our dogs) lol.

ugh! @kate_magalina some old people these days I SWEAR. She should be mature and WANT to be apart of her grandchildrens lives because she's not hurting YOU she's hurting her grandkids the most doing stuff like that! I'm sorry @kate_magalina

He's in prison & we're not married but she's tried everything she could to keep us apart.. @mamabear123

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@kate_magalina, you're mother in law said "Maybe she'll think about it?!?" THAT'S horrible omg I guess she's mad you didn't invite her the first time.

Yes it totally seems disrespectful if I don't have one they just make me nervous they're great people and they invited me to their gatherings and welcomed me so I should do the same of course BUT deep down inside... I don't feel well I'm always nauseous and super tired. @princesswasiq gotta respect the members anyway. you're completely right.

Even if you don't want one have it anyway. It's more respectful then just saying give me your presents.

I wish! @mamabear123 I didn't invite anyone from my boyfriends family to my showers. Then I kinda felt bad so I asked his mom if she wants to throw one for his side of the family and she said she'll think about it or what about after the baby is here. Umm if it's after my baby is here she's going to stay at home with my parents... I don't want all of those people around her when she's so little.

we totally should @kate_magalina

Lol my dad told me that's what I should do for my boyfriends side of the family 😂😂

@rachelmariecroxton,

Main reason why I don't want a shower maybe i should have it anyway.

lol his side of the family are SO NICE they're incredibly welcoming! They STILL make me nervous... especially his mom, who's like the nicest person there is. Idk why.

I was the same way.... :/ I felt bad for it though, but.. I did enjoy my shower. :)