Year of the boys?!

Hi everyone! So everyone around me who has had a baby this year or is expecting soon is having or has had a baby boy- me included, due August 31st :)

I see so many mommies giving their babies rice cereal to sleep even though it's not recommended? Why?

so babies dad and I arent together. His family is throwing him a baby shower. my question is even though they didnt invite me to it should I invite his family to mine??

Has anyone tried evening primrose oil to start soften they cervix ? My sister did it and she had her baby this morning at 39 weeks

*UPDATE*

Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this ...