It's a very personal thing and if you don't want him there he should understand, explain to him that you need someone who is going to comfort you and not stress you out as it can effect the experience for you and the baby!

I just wouldn't tell him when I went into labour and make sure the hospital staff know he's not welcome. don't let someone who clearly doesn't respect you concern you so much. He doesn't deserve to be there.

Honey best thing to say to keep the peace is that you need someone there that is going to make you feel comfortable & will be supportive of your needs & after all that's happened you feel it would be best if he wasn't there during delivery, you need to feel comfortable to ensure a safe delivery & it's best for you & the arrival of the baby if you have whoever you choose there rather than him xxx

That's a good one!! 👏

Tell him you want support from someone you trust!

I know, very twattish of him. Apparently he was cheating for a while before I got pregnant aswell. I wish I had known. Im being civil with him for the baby but it's hard to get a balance of being civil without being too friendly so he doesn't try and worm his way back in. Xx

What a twat! I'd just tell him and don't get drawn in to a conversation about it. It's ur decision and he doesn't have any say in it! (In my dad's words to my bf ... "In that delivery room ur a nobody" lol) I told my bf that if he annoys me or winds me up in anyway he's outta there and we're all loved up and happy lol) Hope it goes well, good luck x

Thanks girls. I'll tell him today. ☺️ not long til baby comes now :) xx

thats awful that he cheated on you!!! if it was me id just tell him hes not welcome in the delivery room. simple as that! he lost that priviledge when he cheated. goodluck to you and baby xxxx

@jadejmb, You're the one carrying a baby .. hes only right is to respect you and he couldnt. Think about whats best for you and the bub..in the end of the day we are all they need xx

Thanks hun, it's nice to hear from someone else. He wants to be involved with the baby and I've got no problem with him coming in shortly after birth once I'm all cleaned up etc.. But I just don't want him in with me at all. I think he thinks that he has the right. It might just be time for me to be blunt and tell him that I don't want him there. Xx

After he cheated on you when you are pregnant i would literally say i dont want him there...but thats just me. You have all the rights to have whoever you want there x