Need to tell the baby's father that I don't want him in the delivery room. We broke up because he was cheating on me.. Any ideas how I can tell him? Xxx
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
So, I have this friend. She has a boyfriend and they have been together for over 5 years. they are both very good friends of mine. While he works nights to support her, she is sleeping around and hiding it from him. She told this to me but told me not to tell. My question is, would you tell him what shes doing? Or would you just leave it alone and let him find out himself... I'm worried that if I tell him he won't believe me and that I would be stepping in a situation that isn't my business. But if I don't tell him I would feel guilty for not telling him when I knew all along. What would you do?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
how did you tell your SO How did you guys tell your SO you were pregnant? Did you tell him right away or do something special?
Elisabete·
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After he cheated on you when you are pregnant i would literally say i dont want him there...but thats just me. You have all the rights to have whoever you want there x
jade·
Thanks hun, it's nice to hear from someone else. He wants to be involved with the baby and I've got no problem with him coming in shortly after birth once I'm all cleaned up etc.. But I just don't want him in with me at all. I think he thinks that he has the right. It might just be time for me to be blunt and tell him that I don't want him there. Xx
Elisabete·
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@jadejmb, You're the one carrying a baby .. hes only right is to respect you and he couldnt. Think about whats best for you and the bub..in the end of the day we are all they need xx
laura·
thats awful that he cheated on you!!! if it was me id just tell him hes not welcome in the delivery room. simple as that! he lost that priviledge when he cheated. goodluck to you and baby xxxx
jade·
Thanks girls. I'll tell him today. ☺️ not long til baby comes now :) xx
Claire Wevill·
What a twat! I'd just tell him and don't get drawn in to a conversation about it. It's ur decision and he doesn't have any say in it! (In my dad's words to my bf ... "In that delivery room ur a nobody" lol) I told my bf that if he annoys me or winds me up in anyway he's outta there and we're all loved up and happy lol) Hope it goes well, good luck x
jade·
I know, very twattish of him. Apparently he was cheating for a while before I got pregnant aswell. I wish I had known. Im being civil with him for the baby but it's hard to get a balance of being civil without being too friendly so he doesn't try and worm his way back in. Xx
charlie1510·
Tell him you want support from someone you trust!
jade·
That's a good one!! 👏
jo·
Honey best thing to say to keep the peace is that you need someone there that is going to make you feel comfortable & will be supportive of your needs & after all that's happened you feel it would be best if he wasn't there during delivery, you need to feel comfortable to ensure a safe delivery & it's best for you & the arrival of the baby if you have whoever you choose there rather than him xxx
zeld·
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I just wouldn't tell him when I went into labour and make sure the hospital staff know he's not welcome. don't let someone who clearly doesn't respect you concern you so much. He doesn't deserve to be there.
Rebecca-Ann Horne·
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It's a very personal thing and if you don't want him there he should understand, explain to him that you need someone who is going to comfort you and not stress you out as it can effect the experience for you and the baby!