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Dawn

ok here's a little rant. I've been doing some shopping for our baby girl and setting up her nursery for when she comes…

ok here's a little rant. I've been doing some shopping for our baby girl and setting up her nursery for when she comes into this world. my husband hasn't done any of the shopping with me or on his own. he hasn't helped me decorate the room either. he says he's excited for this baby yet I'm doing it all by myself. Idk it's just starting to hurt and get to me. what am I supposed to do?

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jessicagarmal

JessicaВ ожидании первенца

give him a job to do :) even if its not perfect tell him how amazing he is... my hubby just needs to be needed... he never means offence for not doing things...

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junebaby

BrandiМама четверых детей, беременна

I think men just have no clue what to do.

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jamie_renea03

Jamie MeineckeМама двоих (младенец)

Does he usually like to go shopping? My husband was the same way...but he doesn't like to shop at all.

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caracross1

caracross1В ожидании первенца

My husband set up the crib but that's it. Lol. I've bought everything, and decorated. It's not that he doesn't care or isn't interested, it's just that he's clueless when it comes to this stuff. Lol. He thinks it's his job to do the "man" things : building, set-up, and put things together.

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thehowtohippie

HaleyМама сына-младенца

I picked out. Bought. Set up. Decorated. Everything myself. Doesn't mean your husband isn't excited sometimes they just don't know what to do. Your parent instincts develop when you find out you're pregnant. Fathers become fathers after they hold their baby.

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dawnasaurus

Dawn

I've tried to get him involved but he just doesn't show interest.

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dawnasaurus

Dawn

No I set up the crib, dresser, etc all on my own.

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firefly

LyndseyВ ожидании первенца

Men are a different breed then us. I decorated our baby girls room he just put together the crib dresser and hung all thw high things for me. Have you asked him to help? I would tell him you need his help say baby your so good at doing this whatever you we'd done could you please help me do it. somtimes they need a little encouragement

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firefly

LyndseyВ ожидании первенца

Has he helped set up crib or dresser?

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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