My friend needs help. should she stay with him or no.

What is her situation? Is she pregnant with someone else's baby?

yes

what did she have to tell him?

She Just needs to make sure he has his mind made up before the baby gets here. My boyfriend isn't my baby daddy and from seeing that message feels the same way. If she doesn't wanna get attached then leave but if she can handle him leaving if he doesn't wanna raise a child then stay. Give him time. That's a big thing to ask someone to do.

okay. she wanted me to ask for her.

I would break up with him. It's a nice way of him saying she has to much baggage for him.

If he's not comfortable being with someone who has a kid by another person, then they shouldn't be together. That's what I believe

I agree with @laura_love her and her child are a package deal and of he's uncomfortable with that then maybe its best they go there separate ways. I respect his honesty

He told her how he feels she needs to accept it, thank him for not being an ass and leaving with no warning or staying and being mentally Nd emotionally abusive he says he's not mentally/emotionally ready to help raise someone else kid Believe Him !!

alright. she and him broke up. but they have decided to stay friends.