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Is it bad that I don't want my boyfriend any where near me or helping me with Anything? I get so annoyed with anything…

Is it bad that I don't want my boyfriend any where near me or helping me with Anything? I get so annoyed with anything he says or does & i told him I need space & he like freaked out & says his feelings are hurt. What should I do ladies ?

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kie123

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@sexii_diiva, thank you 😘

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sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉Мама сына-младенца

yes I agree... I hope everything works out for you!!

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kie123

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@sexii_diiva, he doesn't get as bad as he use to do I do have to give him his props , & I'm not making excuses for him but like the rest of us we all have things in our lives that we need to work/improve on but now that we are bringing a baby into the world he has no reason to say he can't get his shit together I refuse to let my child see their father act like a got damn animal & think it's ok because if things don't improve I will have to take things a step farther & leave him

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sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉Мама сына-младенца

probably hormonal... I was like that 1st tri... I am very affectionate.. but 1st tri.. I barley wanted even his index finger touching me..it was horrible.. lol but a lot of people have men that don't even wanna be in there baby life or support while pregnant... so be thankful... specially when you want that snack at 3am..lol he will go get it for you...but if he is dangerous like I saw above then maybe y'all need to work on his anger issues and tell him you not accepting him like that anymore..that baby will watch his habits and be the same way if its a boy..and if it's a girl she will date shytbags.... but idk your situation or if he is really dangerous or not

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kie123

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@butterflymommy, it's rough but @amayers22 seems to know a little more than I do

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chelsea0820

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same here. would like advice as well.

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kie123

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@amayers22, I completely agree , that's why I try to avoid him or conflict anyway possible because I refuse to put up with it especially now

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amayers22

amayers22

But make sure you don't get into a dangerous situation with your bf's anger issues. You have to think about what's best for your baby and stress is definitely not good!

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amayers22

amayers22

@kie123, it will!! I was so freaked out by how emotional and angry I would get. My husband would put something in the wrong spot in the pantry and I'd explode! I was NEVER like that and I'm not like that anymore (25w, 6d). There are still times when I don't want to be touched or I get irritable (especially late at night or when I'm hungry) but it definitely gets much better as time passes!!

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kie123

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@amayers22, really ? I'm so glad to hear that because I thought this would never end honestly

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amayers22

amayers22

My 1st trimester was a minute by minute roller coaster of emotions. It will get better!! I never had mood swings and literally anything would set me in a mad rage the first 10-13 weeks. He will just have to deal with it...the 2nd trimester is much easier physically and emotionally!

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kie123

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@stunninqx33, yeah it adds a lot of stress on me

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stunninqx33

stunninqx33

Not good at all "/

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kie123

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@stunninqx33, I really hope so & it doesn't make it any better because he has anger issues

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stunninqx33

stunninqx33

He will get over it -.- lol most men get pregnant hormones to when we become prego lol

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