RANT - my boyfriend came to bed around 2:30 this morning and I asked him if he changed Oliver's…
RANT - my boyfriend came to bed around 2:30 this morning and I asked him if he changed Oliver's diaper before he came to bed & he said yes. there is no way in hell that he did because I wake up at 6 & by 6:20 go check on him and he's leaked through his clothes to the mattress. Then I went to change him and his diaper feels like it weighs 10 pounds! I don't care if you are exhausted and have to work tomorrow our son ranks higher over all that stuff. I lose sleep every night to make sure he's taken care of and has everything he needs before I ever think about laying my head down, but you can't do the same? He's a baby, he can't do anything for himself so he trusts in you to take care of him. Not ignore your responsibilities as a parent! I'm so over this being one sided with him. I have to tell him to change or feed our son and even then he still takes his sweet ass time until he sees me getting up to do it then he'll stop me. Even then he has the nerve to get irritated with me for "rushing him" reality check dude, he doesn't wait until you're ready, doesn't wait until you've reached a save point, doesn't wait until you're done eating, and doesn't wait until you're done with an episode. YOU GET YOUR ASS UP AND GET HIM WHAT HE NEEDS! UGH I didn't make him on my own so why am I doing 99.9% of the work?
Krystin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
cause men only think their responsibility is to work and do what they want while we take care of the babies they helped make
iloveyou·
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@wyattsmommy91, that's the dang truth. He doesn't even help me clean the house. I clean, work, cook, & take care of our almost 3 month old son all by myself. He thinks just because he pays the bills that, that's all he needs to do. it's frustrating as heck
Krystin·
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ik I'm in the same boat besides I don't work cause my husband just wants me to take care of our son when he gets home he drinks then passes out and I have my son 24/7 and then he don't understand why his son cries when he holds him. its amazing they can be so oblivious
iloveyou·
Мама сына-младенца
@wyattsmommy91, my boyfriend comes home & gets on his video games. We work different shifts so by the time he comes home in a few hours I'm getting up for work so we never see each other & he gets the easy part of taking care of our son because when he comes home he's asleep & only needs to be changed & fed before he lays him down to sleep. I get the fussiness & sleepless nights. but I also get all the snuggles, smiles, giggles & love. My son use to cry when his daddy would even walk in the room & that's what made my boyfriend hold him more because that hurt him a lot that his own son didn't recognize him but honestly it's his own fault. Sometimes I wanna just pack up our stuff & go but I can't. I know I gotta make this work for our son. Because I know that if we weren't together that he'd never see him. he works weird hours & barely sees him now. No way he'd make the time if we moved out & I want my son to have his father, I didn't have one growing up so I know how it feels. Especially since he's a boy
Sydney Baker·
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@wyattsmommy91, that's what mine thinks and he calls me a lazy ass and tells me I don't do anything but being a mommy I never get a break.
I'm serious like we don't get them my husband went and stayed with his mommy for several nights "cause he needed sleep" what the hell man...I haven't had sleep since like midpregnancy.
and mine does the same the he takes his time then gets so angry when I'm like fuck it stay there I'll do it..I'm exhausted but I'll do it and that's when he throws the well I worked all day I told him dude I'd gladly take your place some times just a Lil break would be blissful.